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My partner wants to occasionally share me with a lonely widowed long time gentleman friend of his. I don't mind letting them share me. Is this wrong?

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Yes. That would be cheating.

Maybe not. That might be ok.

Not at all. Go for it if you want to.

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My partner wants to occasionally share me with a lonely widowed long time gentleman friend of his. They worked together for many years and he is very isolated and depressed after losing his wife of 42 years several years ago. I have met him and feel bad for this lonely widowed gentleman. Is it wrong for me to do this?

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GrinNude · 61-69, C

I have to admit that I first had sex with Robert because Ernie was encouraging me to and I wanted to please Ernie. I had met his friend beforehand and I felt sorry for this lonely depressed gentleman who worked with Ernie for so many years. So I agreed to do this for them. I had always been faithful to Ernie but in this situation with Ernie's encouragement, it felt like the right thing to do. I was very pleasantly surprised by how comfortable I felt having sex with them and how much pleasure we all shared. Now I look forward to our very enjoyable get togethers.

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GrinNude · 61-69, C

@yinandyang Now that Robert is socializing more and having an occasional date, we see him a bit less. About once a month or so. Ernie talks with him regularly and he is doing much better. He still enjoys and looks forward to our get-togethers. We do also. 😊

yinandyang · 61-69, M

@GrinNude Yes it is nice to have a change of pace every once in a while, isn't it? Has your wife been with any other men?

MaryesK9 · 56-60, F

@yinandyang yes I have, as has he 😉

MaryesK9 · 56-60, F

As long as you are in favor of being with him, at your husbands request, all I see is a good outcome for all.
If it’s started as a pity affair, re-think your interest in having another lover to spice things up. You need to be excited to explore and be explored by another man.
Hope you move forward.

VTDestiny · 22-25, M

It's okay to do it if you want to do it. However whether or not you want to do it is the only thing you should take into consideration besides whether or not he and your husband are okay with it.

techkb52 · 70-79, M

I feel if your partner wants you to and you want to or don't mind, then go for it.

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@techkb52 I did. 😊

WandererTony · 56-60, M

@GrinNude how was the experience, if you don't mind me asking?

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@WandererTony I wrote about the threesome in my posts We Finally had a Threesome and Our Ongoing Threesome. I hope you enjoy the reads.

Kazkraft · 56-60, F

Yep, if you husband wants you to and you fancy his friend, why not?

Kazkraft · 56-60, F

Have you made a decision yet?

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@Kazkraft Yes, I wrote about the threesome in my posts We Finally had a Threesome and Our Ongoing Threesome. I hope you enjoy the reads.

Kazkraft · 56-60, F

Seen. Nice story🙂@GrinNude

WandererTony · 56-60, M

Voted.

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@WandererTony Thanks for voting. How did you vote if you don't mind me asking?

WandererTony · 56-60, M

@GrinNude 3 of course! What else?

GrinNude · 61-69, C

@WandererTony I have always been faithful to my partner, Ernie. But in this situation with his encouragement and blessing, it feels like the right thing to do.

cercisflowertoo · 51-55, F

You're being a good friend.

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