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I Are There Any Women Who Can Admit Being Spanked

I have no problem admitting that I am a woman who receives disciplinary spankings.
I know that I deserve them and I also know that I need them to adjust my behaviour and keep me in line.
Being spanked when I misbehave and just knowing that a severe spanking will be the consequence of misbehaviour affects my behaviour in a very positive way and because I recognised this already many years ago I also without embarrassment admit that I need disciplinary spankings to be part of my life.
Fortunately I have a loving and caring husband who takes his responsibilities as HoH seriously and never hesitates to bare my bottom and spank it black and blue when I deserve it.
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Zsuzsanna1 · 41-45, F
I don´t mind admitting that I get spankings from my beloved husband - severe too even - and I have deserved each and every one of them!
karinaal · 70-79, F
Doumik, Very few people and none of my friends know that I am spanked by my husband.
My sister knows and I always tell her when I have got a spanking but we have always been very close and have no secrets from each other.
I also have told our GP that my husband punishes me by spanking me.
Spanking and domestic discipline is not a subject that normally comes up in my/our social circles and I do not go round advertising that I am spanked. There are some of my friends that I would not hesitate to tell if it came natural in a conversation.
Friends we have known for many years and also those we see often know, because it is obvious, that my husband is the head of the household and that I respect him as such. I do not try to hide this fact and when I am talking with a friend or just an acquaintance and we make an appointment of some kind I always make the reservation that I will have to ask my husband. Younger people are perhaps a little surprised by this. The friends we have had since we were young find it perfectly normal and would not expect anything else. It is very possible that they think that my husband has needed to spank me sometimes during all the years we have been married but they do not know about it.
Clara · 46-50, F
@karinaal: My sis and a friend are also spanked. We talk about it a lot.
sassy1 · 46-50, F
I will admit it on here :) but I wouldn't IRL not that it's really anyone's business but ours. We are very happy - I wouldn't want it any other way
submittedwife · 46-50, F
I am spanked by my husband, we have a traditional male led TIH marriage. He makes the decisions and leads the family.
Helle32 · 41-45, F
Amen! I can admit to that too!
Clara · 46-50, F
My husband spank me. Couldn´t live without it.
will999 · 70-79, M
@Clara: Are your spankings for discipline only or do you find them erotic? How frequent are they? Do you have to 'misbehave' to earn one or do you get them as regular maintenance? Did you know your husband spanks before you were married or did you find out after marriage? Was it a pleasant surprise or somerhing you had to adjust to? I am fascinated by the thought of spanking in marriage but it is not something people often talk about on a date is it? Spanking does not work for everyone, and if you talk with everyone about it it may earn you a 'reputation'.
Helle32 · 41-45, F
@Clara Neither could I, Clara
karinaal · 70-79, F
Sassy, now I mus ask what is a DR? Here in Denmark DR stands for Danmarks Radio (=Denmark's Radio).
I explained to our then new doctor that my husband and I have a very good and happy marriage and that one of the reasons we are happy together is that my husband is the undisputed head of the household, that he keeps me in line as needed and that he, when necessary, spanks me. I told her that if she one day should notice marks on my thighs and buttock or perhaps notice that I was sitting uncomfortably then she should worry about domestic violence.
The doctor seemed to understand the concept of Domestic Discipline but said that she was happy to be informed. We discussed DD for maybe 10 minutes and I told her openly how it is practised in our home and I think that she wanted to be sure that I really accepted being subject to discipline by my husband but when she was sure of that the discussion ended.
Fortunately I am a fit and healthy woman so I do not visit the doctor often and mostly for regular health checks. She has never seen marks on my bottom but if it should happen one day I am glad that this will not distract her from the reason for my visit and not need to be explained. But surely Doumik is right when he assumes that it would be embarrassing for me if the doctor saw my freshly spanked bottom and wondered what I had done to deserve the punishment.
sweetsoftkittie · 51-55, F
I can and with a selected few in our circle are aware.
TommyBoy · 36-40, M
That is truly a wonderful thing to get to say and be open about on here! I'm so happy for you and everyone who has commented the same. I hope to one day have that in my life as well :)
karinaal · 70-79, F
@TommyBoy Thank you for the supportive words.
TommyBoy · 36-40, M
@karinaal Of course! :) It is inspiring to see you and all the others who have commented.
karinaal · 70-79, F
Sassy, I guessed that DR meant doctor. It could mean that also in Danish but then it would be Dr.
Yes, she made notes and I have seen the brief note on the screen on her computer when I visit her.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
I think some women might be afraid to admit it less someone think they less of a woman for putting up with being treated like that. Of course people who judge them like that just don't understand the psychological and emotional feelings involved.
You and Helle are inspiring. Someday maybe the whole wide world will shrug adult spanking off just as your PCP or Dr. did. She made a mental or physical note of it and moved on to the rest of the routine exam. God Bless her.
will999 · 70-79, M
Hello karinaal. Thanks for telling us your story. Whose idea was it originally to introduce DD into your marriage, yours or your husband's or did you both come to the idea at the same time? Are you equally happy with this preference or is your husband a reluctant HoH. By your own account your husband does a more than adequate job of baring your bottom to spank it black and blue when you deserve it. He does seem to take his responsibilities as HoH very seriously indeed. You describe your husband as loving and caring and admit without embarrassment that you need to be spanked for misbehaviour. I am interested and curious about this lifestyle and I note there are many variations on this theme according to the individual needs and choices of the participants. Each couple seems to find their own rhythm or modus operandi. A few more questions if I may. Firstly how frequent are your spankings, annually, more than once a year, monthly, weekly or more than once a week? My next question is do you or your husband find these spankings to be sexually arousing? I may be wrong but it is my firm belief that adult DD relationships nearly always have a sexual component to them. Have you ever misbehaved deliberately knowing that a severe spanking will be the inevitable result? Finally for now i think, is the spanking ever reciprocal? Has your husband ever given you power to spank him? Would you like to?
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Nice to know he loves you and cares for you that much
karinaal · 70-79, F
Doumik, The GP means General Practitioner, the family doctor. I do not speak with her about being spanked but when she took over the practice I spoke with her about it. I believed that it was best to inform her so that she knew what it was about if she one day when examining me should notice narks or soreness.
sassy1 · 46-50, F
oops DR is just how I shorten "Doctor" LOL

great you haven't had any marks yet cuz I wonder if she'd even remember the conversation and ask about them? Perhaps she wrote it down though in her notes?
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
Otnis great that younare comfortable with the relationship and that he give you everything you need.. .. ..
Doumik · 61-69, M
Thank you for your reply. I didn't understand about who you speak with GP?
Snoopy1089 · 31-35, M
What did you do this time to deserve it?
karinaal · 70-79, F
Hallo Alexander, I thought that I had told you that on the morning of the day we went to Salzburg I was a litlle stressed and of course also excited and as a result of this I behaved in a way that made it clear to my husband that he had to teach me a lesson before we left. He said that he simply could not take me out among nice people when I behaved as I did, - and the the strap said what remained to be said.
Snoopy1089 · 31-35, M
@karinaal: Oh that was the last time. Then I know what happened. I also replied on your email by the way ;-)
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karinaal · 70-79, F
It hurt a lot and was of course meant to do so. There would be no point in spanking me but not doing it properly; halfhearted and lenient spankings would only be sending confusing and un-clear signals that could be the beginning of new attitude problems.
Fortunately my husband is a man who always does things carefully and thoroughly. It is not pleasant at the time when he spanks me but it is what works.
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Doumik · 61-69, M
Hello Karinaal, do you admit that you are spanking only on Similar Worlds or your friends know too?
Doumik (from Paris, France)
Snoopy1089 · 31-35, M
Note: "...gets spanked by her husband on a regular basis". Maybe the day will come that she sees it in real life
karinaal · 70-79, F
Where does that quotation come from?
Snoopy1089 · 31-35, M
That might be a note in the computer system of your doctor. It's a funny thought. Sorry for the confusion ;-)
sassy1 · 46-50, F
What did your GP say when you told her? I do not go to the DR often but have often worried I might have a bruise - spankibgs and DR visits aren't always planned. Luckily I don't have to show my ass often when I go. Gyno visits are planned
Doumik · 61-69, M
It's a double humiliation of being spanked and having to show her buttocks to the doctor. Has that ever happened in reality? Has she asked why you were punished?

 
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