The Slave. Laura Antoniou

"Rules. Even as the world of phone and computer sex ( and dominance) were full of their own rules, so was the new world of doing-it-for-real. And some of these new rules (OK, most of them, Robin admitted) were just as silly as the ones she had learned and followed before. Safe words, for example. Magic words that when said by the bottom, stopped a scene so that some kind of inconvenient or dangerous activity could be halted. Robin had nothing against the concept.
Having a code to use so that you're free to pull against the bondage or whimper "no, no, no" seemed to be a great idea. But having all these ways to orchestrate what was happening seemed, well contrary to the point...
I wanted to feel that I can't stop it. I want to be really mastered, taken over by someone who isn't going to stop doing things because I'm not getting off on it. Someone who knows enough not to endanger me, unless that was what was intended..."