I Was Spanked Bare Bottom All The Time

@BeckyStone: Did you always think twice and escape a spanking?

@adkgrandpa42: Not always.😊

Only a tiny number of kids favor spanking. A slightly larger number will try to substitute a spanking for a grounding when the grounding will keep them from a big dance or a big game.

I generally recommend spanking alternatives but a genuine preference by the child/teen should be seriously considered by the parent caregiver.

@pcasper59 You know you needed it though. You wouldn't be the lady you are if you hadn't had the belt.

@SeekingConnection Yes definitely learned from those belt talks!

@pcasper59 I think you were very fortunate to be 'spoken to' that way. So many young ladies nowadays don't have the benefit learning from a bare and very sore bottom.

@johnsonjelena45 Happy to hear you are still spanking.

@johnsonjelena45 My parents used to make me bare my bottom myself, that's not unusual.

@SW-User I was supposed to hate being spanked growing up, but secretly I far from hated it. I used to get it on the bare bottom as well.

@SW-User Yes Karen as much as we didn't like those spankings they did teach us a good lesson after ! A sore bottom stayed with us longer with a lasting impression! Good to see you are passing on the old tradition as well!

@SW-User i think it works on some people but not others

@Fishing65 Yes what you say is so true.

@Fishing65 learning that actions have consequences is an important life lesson you have to learn sooner or later and one way or another

@Sharon The belt is effective. 😥

@Scott54 I know. I got it over the arm of the sofa or face down on my bed.

@Sharon Both are great positions. My wife is intimately familiar with the arm of the sofa.

@Bottomschmackenloudenboomer: I always got it bare bottom at home too.

@Alfred22 Virtually always bare at home.

@Scott54 At home, yes.

@pcasper59 Now with the kids all moved out, I still enjoy a good paddling from time to time. There is something about the sting on my bare bottom that just feels good.

@LarrysReflections Yes can relate to that feeling as I need that too at times .

@pcasper59 The wait was pure hell. Waiting for dad to get home was especially stress provoking.

@helenS Until the memory fades. Probably fading does indeed vary with the temporal distance from the last few spanks. They are said to be how we remember a spanking. That is how it ends is what most affects how it is remembered.

@helenS The shelf life of a good spanking is certainly debatable. It might depend primarily on whether the recipient actually agrees that her conduct was morally wrong or merely forbidden by the parent, perhaps for no good reason other than the parent's convenience.

If there is agreement, then the recipient might not really need to be spanked. I seriously doubt that the acceptance of a moral principle can be spanked into someone. Conformity outwardly with that principle can be achieved with the threats of punishment. Most parents are content with that outward conformity since it diminishes various negative consequences for the family. The command "Behave or I will spank you again and harder." Really means pretend to behave and I will leave you alone.

Ethical theory is complicated and hard. There is some agreement among theorists but not much on why wrong acts are actually wrong. Hence, convincing children to accept the underlying principles would require doing good (very good, actually) philosophy. Who is really able to do that? Anyone?

@Alfred22 yes those waits seemed like forever when waiting for Dad to get home . Then panic time when He did get home and Mom was filling him in on what happened . Then hearing him come up stairs to tend to business !!

No Hubby doesn’t get outsourced . 🤣

@pcasper59 I needed those more serious "talks" at times, but I sure as hell didn't want them. When dad got home, he'd march me out to the garage and blister my bare bottom with a strap.

@pcasper59 I am glad to hear that you didn't pass the buck, as it were!

@Noway345 If your what is going to misbehave?

@Noway345 Sounds fair enough to me. You do the crime, you pay the fine, as they say.

@Scott54 What is Noway345 talking about, do you know?

@Insomniac333: Yes as an adult looking back was glad that my parents disciplined me as needed and not let me get away with things!

@nevergiveup spankings weren’t as hard as the ones we got . Yes at times they got as hard or harder spankings.at times.

@pcasper59 we got the belt a lot as kids. I never used one on my 4

@nevergiveup Yes us siblings were spanked with the belt a lot too growing up . I used the paddle with mine and Hubby did use a belt at times .