SPANKING IS A TURN-ON FOR YOU? WHY?

I enjoy a good spanking, I think there are a few different things about it. I don't process pain the same way when I am aroused so it's like a new sensation in some ways. It really doesn't feel like pain. Also, it makes me feel more submissive and vulnerable. The feeling of vulnerability is a big factor me. If I am meeting a man for the first time I will often ask him if he would like to spank me. I find that doing this establishes our roles and serves to make us both more comfortable in them. Also, it's just really hot!

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MissyChrissy · 18-21, F

I understand you well, Sir

Alfred22

I think we are born with it AND that it is hereditary or "heritable" but proof is hard to come by. What are your hunches on this? I doubt anyone on earth really knows.

Maybe someday we will know. We do know about eye color and heritability. I doubt it is all environmental but maybe I am wrong about our parents. I admit facing that our parents were likely both spankos and that it may well be a dominant trait is/are not easy.

Alfred22

I would bet that from your parents' point of view, even now and ever since you were 8 or 9, spanking still works with you, MissN! Most likely you talked about and worried about spankings just like everyone else.

MissNen · 61-69, F

@Alfred22 I have heard it may be genetics also. But not necessarily directly from a parent but could have skipped a generation or two. But who knows really it had to come from somewhere. Aliens?

VisionQuest · 51-55, M

I absolutely love giving amd receiving!

VisionQuest · 51-55, M

When I'm feeling submissive (I'm a true switch) I love the vulnerability. I love bearing my ass, giving it up to my Master. It belongs to them....

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MissNen · 61-69, F

@tpuk83 yep it's a mystery, so I have this theory simply because its the only thing that makes since. Just like a gay person we were born that way. Something got stuck in our brains in the womb. Then when I turned 8 or 9 I seen something that triggered the fetish. I have been fascinated ever since. It has to be that because at that age I knew nothing about sex or a fetish. I just knew I had this funny feeling of excitement. I was definitely born with it.

Alfred22

@MissNen Think of it as a blessing. Transform it into the strength to endure challenges, which it really is.

MissNen · 61-69, F

@Alfred22 when i came out it was most definitely a blessing. I even talk about it in gatherings of people i didn't know. Im not at all shy about it. I can turn faces red if i can't turn thier butts the same way..lol

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VisionQuest · 51-55, M

@MissNen I'm in!

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