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I Received A Bedtime Spanking

Normally, my mom spanked us children right after the "crime" was done or discovered. But sometimes, when we slipped up at dinner or thereafter, mom would say "I will deal with this when you are ready for bed!" Of course, my siblings and I knew that the "dealing" was to be done between mom's hand (or hairbrush) and our poor bottoms.

I remember one evening in particular; I must have been 10 or 11. It was my turn to clear the dinner table and do the dishes, but my best friend called on the phone, and naturally we had a long conversation. Mom walked up to me, making signs that I should stop and clean up, but I chose to ignore her. I must have been on the phone for half an hour or more, and by that time mom had done what I was supposed to do. When I finally stopped talking to my friend, mom calmly said "I want you to go to bed right away. Wait for me when you have washed and brushed your teeth."

To cut a long story short, the evening ended with an extensive talk about family duties and priorities, and mom underscored her point by turning me over her knee, pulling down my PJ trousers and using her fairly strong hand for a good number of smacks on my bottom. Nothing cruel (and I sure was glad that the hairbrush did not come into play!), but mom sure knew how to make me remember my duties! When I finally was by myself, I soon fell asleep.
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I'm glad at least you didn't get the hairbrush! Although the hand can be underrated so I'm sure it hurt plenty!
@Germanmom: So true. Genuine and legitimate parental influence and power comes from wisdom and love. Only a small portion of it depends on the usual parental ability to inflict intense and unbearable stinging pain. For almost all children capable of learning from a spanking, a moderately intense hand spanking is adequately painful. Additional pain is indeed painful and may extend and drag out the recovery period, but I would like to see any evidence that such additional pain "works better."

I am going to post about what I do think the additional pain does do: namely, it induces a low level, constant dread and fear. This low level never-ceasing awareness that a child might incur that howling-inducing, unbearably intense spanking pain likely causes exposure of the whole endocrine system to higher levels of stress hormones such as cortisol. Constant stress is known to speed ageing and all sorts of health issues.
Germanmom · 61-69, F
@Alfred22: I think you make a very good and important point. It is all right that children know that bad acts have unpleasant consequences (including spankings), but excessive beating does much more harm than good (no good at all, actually).
Well-said, GM. You are always, as the Brits say, "Spot on!"

I suppose the issue is not whether spankings should rise to the level of being prohibited by Child Protective Services. Everyone would say that they should not. OK.

But where there is MUCH disagreement is over whether it is ok that parental spankings induce an "unbearable" temporary sting. I doubt that a short-lived unbearable sting qualifies as a beating or abuse. So the issue is whether those "losing it" or "passed beyond the breaking point" moments are illegal. I assert that they are not illegal but that for sensitive children (such as I was and maybe you were also) they induce that constant dread. And, that constant dread is bad for the physical health of the child. What do you think based on your experiences?
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TechFan90 · 31-35, M
@Tripdelta4 Same would happen to me when I misbehaved. After mummy finished telling me off and smacking me to tears, leaving me with a sore red bum, I would run up to my room crying. I would cry into my pillow rubbing and looking at my well punished bottom.
The sleep after an intense experience is often very restful. Spankings can be intense so perhaps you slept well. I hope so.
Pop0159 · 61-69, M
Yes I was much the same with mine .. spanking relatively soon after the misdeed or its being known .. .. however there were times that I chose to wait .. .. come to find out years later my youngest dreaded waiting more then she did the spankings .. or at least as much .. .. ..
MisterVince · 70-79, M
Priorities are just that and she taught you about that with a good smacking. Hopefully you actually took that to heart.
TechFan90 · 31-35, M
I'm sure being smacked until you cried your eyes out, made sure you did as you were told the next time.
Dreammmer · 61-69, M
Way too much interest in spanking. I think that is very unhealthy and sharing your experiences and views here will not help you to heal.
Germanmom · 61-69, F
Thank you for your concern, but I think that is my business.
Dreammmer · 61-69, M
@Germanmom: Sure is, I respect that and I respect how you react. Pass einfach auf dich auf bitte.
TAReturns · M
Amazing :)

 
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