I introduced my girlfriend in a dd relationship with me ( lesbian, spanking, 18+)

Hello 🙂
My name is Zansa and I am just new here. I have a relationship with a girl for 6 months, funny way we met on reddit and then we communicated on facebook and then we became friends and met. We started to be very close and like each other a lot, so we became lovers.
She is very nice and we don't fight, but since we moved in together I started to see more flaws in her. She doesn't wash the dishes immediately after we eat when it's her turn, she doesn't study at college and takes small grades, and when I come home from work I find mess in our room. Being an orderly girl because that's how my mother raised me, I expect my beloved to be orderly too, so I thought I'd introduce corporal discipline to her.
I told her what it was about and she agreed, so I undressed her and gave her a spanking on her bare ass with my hand. She started crying but after it was over we kissed, had sex and went to bed.
But it had no effect, the next day there was more mess in the room. I had no choice and I took a belt and put it in boiling water for a few minutes, during which I made my girlfriend do push-ups naked. After I removed the belt, I applied the cream to her back and thighs, then we both decided that she would receive 60 strokes from the belt.
my girlfriend lay on her stomach on the bed and I started to hit her hard with the belt on her smooth skin. I gave her 20 blows with the belt on her back, 20 blows with the belt on her bottom and 20 blows with the belt on her thighs, it was harder there because she was moving around and crying loudly.
After the beating, she didn't really feel like sex because she was a bit upset, but I gave her a relaxing massage and whispered in her ear how proud I am of her and how much I love her. Since it's her turn to clean, she follows the rules, and I always kept the belt next to the bed, so that if she or I need discipline, we can use it.
Since then I have acquired several punishment tools and I have also received a beating from her, and every time after a punishment is ready, a satisfying sex awaits us.
She even told me that this discipline is the best thing that happend to us ❤️
Do you guys have any advice for the future in our dd relationship ?

1olderguy20 · 61-69, M

The padded bottom is where it should be applied too. Did your mom punish you severly

ZansaBercho · 22-25, F

@1olderguy20 My mother rarely punished me, but when she did, I had a purple bottom for a week ha ha

1olderguy20 · 61-69, M

@ZansaBercho i assume you received the belt bare bottom

InquisitiveMind · 46-50, M

Communication is best, as long as you continue to talk about what you do and what you want to try next, you’ll both understand what each other likes/ dislikes… & you’ll be able to experiment without concern of going too far..

Chloenylonlegs · 41-45, T

I suggest you leave each other right away.
If you have to resort to violence. Rather than having the brain power. To sort it out with communication. Then you are both in a dangerous situation.
You must have a massive ego. To believe. Your opinion on any matter. Somehow. Out rules your partners opinion.

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HordeCory · 26-30, M

@Chloenylonlegs grow up.

Chloenylonlegs · 41-45, T

@HordeCory that's the best argument you can come up with.
Wow! Amazing. That's my opinions quashed.

HordeCory · 26-30, M

@Chloenylonlegs I have no interest in arguing with you. People are always going to be kinky whether you like it or not. Cope and seethe.

Frodo · 26-30, M

You need to separate sex from punishment, im not saying dont provide aftercare.

Justme264 · 70-79, M

Welcome to SW!

Kzatovhich · 22-25, M

Why did you boil the belt? Won't a hot belt cause worse injuries? Or is it to harden it?

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Kzatovhich · 22-25, M

@Chloenylonlegs there's pain, amd there's damage. Burning will be more or less permanent

HordeCory · 26-30, M

@Kzatovhich I don't think they used it right out of the boiling water.

Kzatovhich · 22-25, M

@HordeCory lets hope. Nothing like a hard leather belt...... or a paddle. Its basically a paddle at that point

HordeCory · 26-30, M

Nothing like the belt. I'm a big believer in it.

helen69 · 51-55, F

great!