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I Spank My Children

Giving A Warm-Up Spanking With Your Hand Followed By A Harder Implement Spanking.



"Warm up spankings" make sense in a consensual B&D scene. In a B&D scene, warming up the spankee's buttocks with lighter hand spanks at first, then gradually working up to greater severity, makes the spankee's flesh sensitivity diminish. Hence the spankee can tolerate longer and harder implement spankings due to earlier gentler warm ups. B&D sessions last much longer, to the satisfaction of players.

"Warm ups" make less sense when punishing children, though. Why would a parent want to draw out a spanking like B&D players do? Wouldn't a loving but strict parent more likely elect to punish quickly? Then parent and child can put the matter behind them and child starts fresh with a clean slate.

But what if the parent enjoys administering their child's spankings and yearns to prolong the gratification they derive while doing so? In their case, giving a milder warm up followed by a harder spanking a little later makes sense for the same reason it makes sense to B&D players - the enjoyment lasts longer that way.

I'm not accusing every parent here who gives their children warm up spankings of being a perv, of course.

If you are a parent who spanks this way, what did make you choose this method?

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RemovedUsername470913 · 51-55, M
Hi there I am a dad of two strong willed boys who are spanked when necessary. In all honesty they don;t need it much, but am happy to oblige when they do. I use a warm up spanking if you will light hand spanks to the bare bottom so the boy spends more time over my lap contemplating the predicament he is, it's not really long but does make them squirm and get teary eyed, eventually I spank harder and harder to get real tears and feelings of remorse and apologetic afterwards. It's about twice a month in our home more so when younger.
Codrin · M
@RemovedUsername470913 It could be a good strategy to prolonge the punishment by increasing step by step the intensity of the hits and preparing the receiver for the final 'assault' with the implement. Sincere remorse is a sign that the punishment is effective, when the crying is no longer a revolt or a way to get off, but only a calm sobbing revealing the receiver's profound regret for his misdeed.
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adshaw · 36-40, M
Didn't you post this yesterday? The only 'warm up spanking' that suits a child is beginning with the hand then finishing with an implement, but that's still consider one spanking. If a parent were to prolong the punishment due to their own enjoyment, it would make better sense to draw it out over a longer period.
Badseed · 61-69, M
Yes, that was my thought too. I've heard a number of parents on SW say they do this. I wanted to know why they do so, assuming that they aren't going to claim they enjoy doing it.

I did post it yesterday on a different thread, but no spanking parents responded. So I thought this might be a more appropriate place to ask this question.
adshaw · 36-40, M
@Badseed: I understand. Often but not always I think it falls into the same category as entire family spanking, diaper use, diaper position spanking (though it is used genuinely, just a favorite of the dubious posters), sandpaper and femdom stories.
Badseed · 61-69, M
@adshaw: I have actually heard a couple of explanations for this style of spanking which didn't sound perv-y. I'm hoping one or two real parents who spank this way will respond and explain why they believe in giving their child a warm up first.
asdfghjkl · 26-30, F
This isn't creepy at all...
I can see that spanking that way would be counter productive. Anything that desensitises the bottom is going to blunt the impact of what follows.
AllTheWorlds · 36-40, M
@SensibleJulie That is sadly true
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Codrin · M
Some decades ago, their were no B&D scenes. Maybe for this reason, my parents never "warmed up" my bottom, but reddened it directly with the belt.

 
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