Domestic discipline Spanking [I Still Get Spanked]

People won't open their minds to things that scare them, and this lifestyle scares them. It "sets women back" and they are scared of that. So they try to call it abusive, demeaning and everything else in an effort to steer women away from it But those of us who live it, we know the truth. Its liberating and freeing, it's consensual and engaging. Its both erotic and intoxicating. It opens up more communication and trust in relationships and marriages last longer. So let them write their articles... because at the end of the day, it doesn't change the truth. In fact, it helps our community in many ways. It will make people ask more questions and wonder what this is exactly. While it might be off putting to some, for others, it will draw curiosity and open a door.

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SW-User

I only just saw this. Thank you for posting such a well considered statement. I haven’t been in a DD relationship and probably would not choose to, but i do appreciate discipline.

Amandaw1191 · 31-35, F

@SW-User thank you

Alfred22

@SW-User What form does your appreciation of discipline assume?

SW-User

@Alfred22 I live alone and don’t want anyone controlling all the mundane details of my life. I do appreciate having one or two special people who help me with the big things and provide discipline when I need it. Sometimes I am able to help someone else in a similar way which is very satisfying.

Alfred22

@SW-User Your approach, especially your willingness to help others, seems best to me.

Those you help can come to understand that you yourself have been in the very same position and have benefited from the sort of discipline they are receiving.

The cliche about it being more blessed to give than to receive has a grain of truth in it. It clearly is much more difficult to adjust giving. Receiving is easier, albeit sometimes more painful on one level.

SW-User

@Alfred22 Why do you say giving it is more difficult.

Alfred22

@SW-User Finding the Goldilocks zone is very difficult.

Too hard and/or too emotionally intense are unsatisfactory. Both risk a safeword exit but even more unsuccessful is a scenario that is too soft and fails its primary mission. Explicit advice from recipients could help for a future occasion but the very giving of the advice ruins the current visit. So, giving/providing is challenging.