What’s the worst and certain / positions/roleplay you can’t stand people still ask for ?

Dad and daughter
Him in a diaper me mom
Incest
Tying up
Anal
Those are the five I won’t do first ones traumatized

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Everyone is different on Role playing I have found. Certain things a majority of course don't want to be apart. Yet others might want to do a few things that you may want to do.

I recall a certain girl on Reddit wanted to be dominated. That's just not something I can easily do. The thing was she was insulted that I couldn't. Said she's not interested in "wimps".

I find that happens a lot. And it's not just one thing. Some may be interested in one or two of the things you're not interested in. Yet the majority of things you might have in common.

Saying all this because roleplaying is sort of a partnership. If you say no way to just one thing you'll miss out altogether on all the rest.

It's to hard to find a partner as is without having many intolerable exclusions. Especially when you need to work together on the actual roleplaying that you do have in common.

AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F

@DeWayfarer agree with you two of the things I don’t like have traumatized me and I won’t do other it’s just plain nasty but I get what you mean trust me I try few things once’s to see how it goes

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@AsianEyezChulaRp I understand. Rape is intolerable because I had been raped myself. And why I am all about consent. That is an extreme though. Many you have mentioned are not as extreme.

AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F

@DeWayfarer rape by second ex he’s the second guy who rape me thirds my first bf years later hard to trust a guy now when the one you never thought would do that to you know you was rape by two ppl in the past then he does it
First was my moms bf he’s was in is late 40s I was in elementary barely remember it but I do remember the touching over clothes
I know it was him first welling time I thought I was going lose my virginity I didn’t bleed so I knew he must of drug me so I wouldn’t remember being rape as a kid kinda am glad he drug me because I don’t think I’ll date or give a guy a chance if I knew the details till my child rape

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@AsianEyezChulaRp sorry that happened to you. 😞

I was repeatedly raped as well. And as a young teen. I rarely mention it though.

AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F

@DeWayfarer same here my second ex n first ex later on I remember thoughts they’re put me in a bad depression that I don’t want to give a guy a change with me I rather be alone I am scare I’ll be rape a guy by a new person and one day I’ll get pregnant n I don’t want a rapist baby 😔 n I can’t do nothing about it I am scared I’ll be in a suicidal thoughts if that happens
Haven’t told my Thrapist that yet but that’s how I feel first time saying it out loud

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@AsianEyezChulaRp you have reasons for your issues. Good ones at that. The hard part is trust. Which is key to many relationships of all types. The best anyone can do is to keep on trying though. Protect yourself of course. Yet over time you will see not everyone is going to hurt you in that way. Some will try to help. Others will be indifferent. Many on this site actually are that way.

Try to see beyond the facade that most put out. Everyone does it not even knowing it. Some consider me confadent person on here. I really am not. That's my facade. Others have different facades. It's these different facades that can be scary, especially to those that have been hurt multiple times before.

I hope this is understood and helps a bit.

AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F

@DeWayfarer I agree sometimes I feel like I need a pocket knife just in case it happens again

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@AsianEyezChulaRp remember ever as a kid you wanted to be reassured. Like a kid being afraid on things under the bed?

And your parents might have given you a teddy bear or something similar? That was to make you less scared. Perhaps a knife will help. Yet remember even kids do grow up and no longer need such "props" to feel safe.

BTW gun people are not different. They just don't want to get rid of their teddy bears. And some never will.

AsianEyezChulaRp · 31-35, F

@DeWayfarer true