Who's had experience in the swing life?

My ex husband and I were in it for well over 10 years. We also had an open marriage for several years.

I've always wondered just how many people have been in either of these situations? It's very hard to gauge.

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Amy78 · 46-50, F

My husband and I are in an open relationship for 30 years.

VeronicaJane

@Amy78 any bumps along the way? If I might ask, by open, do both play or does he just watch you play?

Amy78 · 46-50, F

@VeronicaJane we both play around I more often than he does and we’ve had plenty of bumps but none from the open relationship. He’s not interested in watching and neither am I.

VeronicaJane

@Amy78 so you don't "play" together? Take turns watching the kids while the other has a "date" night? Yeah, hard to go 30 years without some bumps along the way. Sometimes just "friction" from thinking different ways.

Amy78 · 46-50, F

@VeronicaJane back when we started my husband would watch me play around but he lost interest in that a long time ago.

VeronicaJane

@Amy78 did he lose interest, or could he not bear watching you be more carnal with others? Sometimes men can't handle it if you do things with other men that you'd never do with them, or have more intense orgasms....