Touching myself

I am in a sexless marriage. Love my wife to bits and definitely not looking to change it but not yet ready to give up so yes i do play with myself about twice a week on average.
Like most men, I'm a visual creature and to help I watch porn clips. However I'd much prefer to do mutual masturbation. I do (well did) have a FWB who was in a similar position to my own. Didnt want to 'cheat' but loved to watch me while she played as well.
Unfortunately she caught Covid and died from complications.
WOuld love to find another woman interested in doing something similar either face to face or over whatsapp etc