Do you take your pleasure where you can get it?

@AlchemyFox don’t abstain

@Miklee02 but it’s all so meaningless it isn’t even that much fun

@AlchemyFox the last year has been that way for me. Getting stuck with a divorce didn't help matters and for months nothing aroused me. "It" rarely stands at attention anymore but that too shall pass

@Spumoni it will pass 🤗

My issue is the opposite. I can’t stop and it’s too easy to get. But I don’t want to sleep around anymore. It doesn’t feel good.

@AlchemyFox Understandable

@AlchemyFox din't want you to fail but we all need fun and to blow off steam

@pdockal yeah but there’s too much that can go wrong. And as the alone woman in the equation, the stress is on me. So it’s not that fun to know I’m being used recklessly.

@AlchemyFox
There's a difference between love, making love, sex for enjoyment

@pdockal yeah I know that. There’s also being used

@AlchemyFox
Guess I'm different
Sex is sex is sex and if I'm enjoying it i want to be used

@pdockal You are exactly the man I want to avoid

@AlchemyFox
Oh no
Oh well
@ least I'm up front about who i am and what i need