Any body been caned

@TheThinker the threat for us in school was the paddle. We didn’t know the teachers weren’t actually allowed to do it (the practice had been stopped) but I had pretty female teachers who kept the paddles on their chalkboard trays, I always wanted to experience one of the paddling but didn’t know it couldn’t happen.

@joe438 Oh, how squirmy for you!

@TheThinker my mindset about this would be different than it would have been when I was younger, but having a woman making me squirm is a love/hate thing.

@joe438 Oh yes!

@joe438 Yes, it's very much a British thing, on the whole!

Caning is a skillful art that needs to be learnt properly for it to be effective without being dangerous. But when it IS done properly... oh my!

@TheThinker putting trust in someone to let them hit you is a big deal, I know that about the cane and it’s even more important than a brush or paddle.

I guess I need to befriend some traditional British ladies.

@joe438 It can be taught though, sometimes quite easily. Some ladies pick it up incredibly quickly, born naturals, you might say.

Others, not so much! 🤣

@TheThinker I’ve been part of teaching ladies how to use a brush, and it can be difficult with the ones who don’t have an innate feel for how to do it. I often had the bruises to show for it.