TRUE CONFESSIONS: Why do so many say that XXX ADULTS ONLY PORN is not realistic? ...can I disagree?

Now, back to the far more pleasant topic at hand :) ...

The only two things I can see that is not realistic about Porn is the depiction that every guy on the planet has an 8-12 inch cock that can stay rock hard for hours. Yes, I am sure there are really some guys that can fit into that category but it would be as rare as a white rhinoceros walking down the middle of 5th Avenue in New York. And then there are some of the Porn Star Girls who embarrassingly over act and too obviously fake their part.

What is realistic for one of many examples is Porn of only a few girls squirting. That is realistic because there aren't many girls who can or will do it. Guys, or other girls, who know how to make a girl squirt can make me squirt fountains every time. But in Porn they don't show girls squirting in every Porn video because some girls can't and some guys don't know how to help her do it. So it is very rare in reality and very rare in porn. What isn't realistic about that?

My sisters, and I, have done most everything seen in the average porn videos. One of the reasons I am said by others to be such a good erotic story writer is because I have had, and wanted to try, so many erotic experiences in real life. No, I am not kidding. To many, non traditional sexual acts, are too far over-the-top but to me it is just experimenting and trying new things to see how much I like them, or maybe not so much.

There are many extreme sexual genres that I have wanted nothing to do with, but even for many of them, a girlfriend or even one of my sisters who is even more hyper sexual than I am may have done it. To me that is 'realistic'.

My point is, how 'unrealistic' is a Porn Shoot if it is something that someone has 'really done'? ...isn't that 'real'?





Here are what would be considered Porn Scenes that I have actually done, not just written about in an erotic story context...

Most of these I love and wanted to do, while several others I was 'told' to submit to as part of a BDSM or other fetish scene because of my submissive nature and desire to please my male dominant or Lesbian partner. I will indicate which ones I wanted to do the first time and which ones I was hesitant about doing at first but was told to obey and submit to.


GANG BANGS (W) - I have done many Gang Bangs starting when I first turned a teenager. I will be doing one in a few days at my girlfriends annual summer 'clothing optional' pool party in the San Francisco Bay Area which is very popular among our large group of friends and friends of friends. I have also done them during an annual New Years Eve San Francisco Bay tour on board a large Private Yacht in years when the waves are calmer. It's hard to concentrate on the fun parts when you are being thrown up and down by the boat instead of by your sex partners ...lol.
Only done in Commercial Porn and not realistic? ...believe what you want.


GROUP SEX (W). Yes, this is one of the more common sexual scenes I have done with my sisters and/or girlfriends and several guys but most often with all Bi and Lesbian girls at sleep overs, pillow fight parties, pajama parties, lingerie parties, panty parties, sex toy parties, pool parties, bachelorette parties, etc.
It is hard for me to think of these as 'unrealistic' when I grew up doing these from an early age.


SEX IN UNUSUAL SETTINGS OR PLACES (W) - How about when I gave a guy a blow job while on the dark Haunted House ride at Disneyland or did stealth fucking in front of several others without their knowing while on the beach or a park bench or in a public jacuzzi, or a balcony or large glass window of a sky rise hotel facing other hotels or office buildings or how about when a guy just takes you behind the bushes, bends you over and fucks you from behind standing up or puts you on your knees for a blow job to completion while in danger of getting caught? ...yes, it does happen in reality, not just in Porn!


FACE FUCKING (TW) - This is among my top five favorite. I love dominant guys who are passionate about doing this, especially when they insist that I lick their shaved balls and rim them in between their face fucks while pushing hard on the back of my head as they talk super dirty to me the whole time! This is not unrealistic when you like it.

DEEP THROAT (TW) - Deep Throat is different from Face Fucking because a boys cock is held in balls deep the majority of the time instead of the continual thrusting of Face Fucking. Yes, I have seen the old classic movie 'Deep Throat' which maybe helped launch the more popular concept. I learned how to hold my breath for extended periods, as well as other breathing around the cock techniques, so guys who don't insist on pulling out and cumming all over my face can stay down my throat while they cum and cum and cum some more ...lol. Why is this not realistic when it really happens and I love providing so many boys the pleasure they receive from it?


SEX WITH STRANGERS (W) - First of all, I do not have sex with strangers. It is a nice fantasy but I will not do it. I have to know the person I am having sex with to mitigate the risk and heighten the enjoyment. However, I will have sex with a friend of someone that I know 'if I like them' because I do not consider them to be a stranger if they are a friend of someone that I like. And another However, I have been fucked by strangers during Gang Bangs but only when it got out of control like someone coming into the room and trading places with someone else when I had a cock in my mouth balls deep and didn't know who it was that was fucking me at any one time, especially during DP. I don't like when that happens because many times I didn't even know they fucked me until they were done and when I do catch them I have had to tell the ones I don't know to go away or ask them who they are friends with to see if I know them or not so I can let them continue and finish. It is hard to control what is going on during the hot and heavy parts of a gang bang. There are always the guys at a party that hear what is going on and leave their girlfriend to go to the bathroom and end up coming into the bedroom I am in instead, trying to sneak into the mix of guys standing around waiting to get a turn, or for the multi-cummers, a second or third turn. Then the girlfriend finds out and gets mad at me when I had nothing to do with what he was doing, or trying to do, and didn't even invite him.

SEX EDUCATION IN INDIA: 'Don't have sex with strangers unless your parents have arranged it for you' ...lol

RIMMING (TW) - Another one of my top 5 favorites when the guy is super clean only. Most of the time I take a shower with them and make sure they are clean way in there. I have done this pleasantry for over an hour with much older men who have this fetish and want me to do it for them. I actually like this so much sometimes I don't want to stop. Maybe it being so taboo has something to do with it.

BARE BACK HARD ANAL POUNDING (TW) - Another one of my top five, no I am not kidding! There is nothing like the feeling of hot cum running over my labia, vulva and down my inner thighs sometimes up to 20 minutes after 'bare back' anal fucking with a really heavy cummer who can't stop shooting his hot orgasmic cum in me ...OMG!

LESBIAN SCISSORING (W) - I have read many comments from girls saying that scissoring is hard to do and isn't that enjoyable. I know why you are saying that, I get it, but when you know how to do it from lots of early experience and what aids to use after some well oiled or very wet rubbing fore play ...OMG, YES! ...it works and can be quite erotic!

A 16" DOUBLE ENDED PENIS DILDO FOR LESBIANS

LESBIAN PEGGING (W) - I love being pegged by another girl. Sorry guys but some Lesbians think they can substitute what you were created for. However, I have to have guys on occasion as there really is no substitute for that special frosting that they put on my muffin! ...among other places...lol


LESBIAN RIMMING (W) - Yes, a few girls like this too, it's not all just in Porn, don't doubt me! I love it right after bathing together and then foreplay in a jacuzzi so we are super clean.

SQUIRTING (W) - There is an art to this for most of us but, if you are not a natural at it, it can easily be mastered with proper training. Yes, squirting is mostly just for show but is highly orgasmic and very 'real'! Once you get good at it, it can be hard 'not to do' as an auto response when going into an intense orgasm.

GOLDEN SHOWERS (TW) - This is one of those that I was told to submit to by a dominant guy. It took some getting used to but after a couple of sessions I started to find it very erotic at times. I have done both giving and receiving. What do you do as a submissive when you're told to open your mouth? ...just wondering ...lol
Unrealistic? ...maybe for most, but it is very 'real' for some.

TOPLESS OR FULL PUBLIC NUDITY (W) - I am not talking about in front of people who don't want to see it but in front of those that do. I have done this at nude beaches, nudist resorts, private nudist events and private parties where topless was accepted and/or encouraged and others totally nude.


PUBLIC SEX (W) - Again, not in front of those that don't want to see it but in front of those anxious to watch. It can be the ultimate erotic turn on for dominant and submissive exhibitionists! How about have fully nude sex when a circle is formed around those doing it? No one can see what is going on inside or it can be done behind other cover when in a very public place. I have had public sex at a park, a beach, an outdoor rock concert, a live theater behind a veiled curtain during the performance and a county fair to name a few.

LATE TERM PREGNANCY SEX (W) - Assisting Couples in sex with a very pregnant bisexual girl can be the ultimate in erotic pleasure for all involved. Maybe #1 on my list of favorites. This is also a Porn Genre that is very real. I have done this as a threesome and foursome many times.

LACTATION NURSING (W) - I have done pregnancy massage for bi girlfriends which ended up in a full nursing session. This is a real Porn Genre. Breast milk tastes like almond milk which I already love anyway ...OMG! ...I'm not kidding!!

OLDER YOUNGER SEX (W) - I have had sex with much much older men from a very young age and still do and love it. Older guys are so perverted ...lol. A Porn site called Private Society has some of the best older younger Porn on the web and is in no way 'unrealistic' as far as I am concerned.


INCEST (W) - I love this the most but won't go into detail in public forum about this typically controversial and loving erotic art. I have written two separate posts about it. More of this goes on than anyone wants to admit and is very 'real'.


There are many other Taboo Porn Activities I have done but won't mention in public forum. Most I was told to submit to by a dominant partner in a BDSM or other fetish scene and some I was anxious to try.

Here is your chance to 'Get it All Out' and complain about WHAT IS NOT REALISTIC ABOUT PORN? I will even add on to my survey poll choices those you suggest if you have a good one.

Tell us in your comments or select some choices in my Survey that I included based on some complaints I have heard from others or seen on social media for what is 'unrealistic' about Porn.