Long-term orgasm denial in dom/sub play

Is anybody else thrilled by the idea that dninant partner controls and denies sexual pleasure and/or climax of the submissive partner?

I mean, not just during a single “sexy session” , but from a long term perspective.

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James1956 · 61-69, M

My wife denies my pleasure. Our marriage is all about her pleasure.

helenS · 36-40, F

@James1956 How does is work for you, please?

James1956 · 61-69, M

@helenS
She teases me right to very edge repeatedly while denying my release. I haven’t had an orgasm, other than a couple ruined ones she did allow, at least two years.

helenS · 36-40, F

@James1956 Thank you for being so open about that 🌷
... oh and your wife? How does she satisfy her own needs when you are denied? (It's fine if you don't want to answer)

James1956 · 61-69, M

@helenS
You’re welcome. I satisfy her orally with multiple orgasms and we have a strap on for me to use as well.

helenS · 36-40, F

@James1956 Do you wear a chastity device? Is the strapon attached to the device?

James1956 · 61-69, M

@helenS
I did wear one, then she decided she wanted me to get additional piercings and now we are currently looking for one that will work with my piercings. No the strap on is not connected to a device.

helenS · 36-40, F

@James1956 That subreddit group discussed so-called PA piercings to make chastity permanent and the device unremovable. I don't know exactly what it is but it sounds pretty scary muahahaha

James1956 · 61-69, M

@helenS
I have a PA piercing and a device for it, however it is too heavy and damaged the piercing. I would be fine with it being permanent, honestly.

helenS · 36-40, F

@James1956 Wow 🌷
You and your wife should really check the relevant subreddits, I think you might enjoy what you find there.
Oh and I will have to check what exactly a PA piercing is.

James1956 · 61-69, M

@helenS
I will look for them. A pa goes in at the base of the head into the uretha.