Being Pushed Past Limits

I do think boundaries should be respected but I also think pushing limits of exploration offers so much opportunity. For example, forced sex fantasies either of a rape fantasy or forced marriage situation appeal to me but I still struggle with these feelings. But being able to explore these interests and see where they lead is fun.

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HootyTheNightOwl

Always make sure you have a safe word if you're going to try any non-consensual play.

SW-User

@HootyTheNightOwl absolutely!

HootyTheNightOwl

@SW-User I've lost count of the number of people who have told me "They went over my limits".

I ask if they have safe words and they say "No - but my partner should have known XXX".

Well, no... that's what your safe word is for - so you can remind them or get help if you cramp up or something.

Doesn't matter if it's your first scene or your fifty millionth.