Being Pushed Past Limits

My wife is the same. I used to encourage her to flirt and tease guys at work. One guy finally couldn’t stand it anymore. They worked in a bank in foreclosures and went to evaluate a vacant office building and she was giving him some glimpses of cleavage and he backed her against the wall making out with her and ended up fucking her as she half heartedly told him to stop while kissing him. They had a 2 year affair.

exploring should be done with someone you feel safe with and knows your wish. But I agree pushing past the limits could be alot of fun as well

Everyone has limits though. You really should determine what your limits are before hand.

So you know, safe words and cues are your friend. At least think about it before you get into anything you don't want to get into.

There is consensual- noon-consent. #1 find someone you trust!!! #2 Discuss & be very clear about what you want. That you can be dominated. Safe for you. Fun for both of you.

Submission to someone is about trust and is a gift. It is the trust that allows your boundaries to be pushed.

There is a thin line right between what constitutes pleasure and what constitutes abuse in these cases..

I'd recommend stretching your boundaries but forced anything is problematic.

The key is trust - to then give over consent, to non-consent..

Very true

Totally agree