So confused with how to go about it.

I’ve been trying to explore my sexual desires and interests a lot lately. I’ve just have no idea sometimes to be like tamed about and not come of as a pervert or whatever. Or to just say fuck and give it every thing I have and be as open about as I possibly can. It also really doesn’t help that I don’t really know how to find the right to actually do things with. I’ve tried online sites but I’m never able to connect with anyone or the people I do talk to are obviously scammers.