What are the biggest age gap you've ever had with a sexual partner? Both older and younger.

Obviously I don't want to hear about underage stuff. Keep that stuff to yourself.

Older was when I was 21 or 22 and I met a 40 something woman in a bar. I guess she was a cougar before the term was created. We both were drunk and flirty, and we ended up at some no-tell motel for the night.

Younger age gap was when I was 55 and she was 42. We had been platonic friends for years until one New Years Eve party she came to me and asked if our friendship could survive one night of love.

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robertsnj · 56-60, M

when I was 37 my GF was 52. When I was 35 my GF was 27. those are my biggest extremes.

With both of them we had enough common interests for a relationship. However with both of them we lacked a shared vision of life goals which ended each of those relationships.

I think 15 is probably pushing it for me and maybe for most others. the bigger the age gap the harder it is to find commonalities and the life goals part, is way tougher when you came form different decades.

My life goals today in my 50's is drastically different then my 30's. It is not that I changed but my age change, career change, lifestyle changes changed as I grew older.