This period in my life is like something has opened up, and along with everything else, also my sexuality is ON

I'm attracting men once more after a long time, and looking at it from some distance this time, I think, there's an energy that's building up and it's not necessarily anything personal.
It seems that if I allow the flirt and sexual energy to build up but manage to not indulge in it, it's going to find a way to be fulfilled through another person, and that it's not necessarily personal, that's what I see differently this time.

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Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

That sounds like “flirtational edging”. 😏

elafina · 36-40, F

@Ambroseguy80 I don't know what but it's challenging !

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

@elafina yes. Fighting nature is usually challenging.

elafina · 36-40, F

@Ambroseguy80 any tips from there ?

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

@elafina I think my advice would depend on what your objectives are. If you wish to remain single and chaste, I would say it’s a dangerous thing to let things build near an outlet. It’s kind of like plugging into one half of the outlet and not wishing to get shocked. ⚡️ 🤯

If you are releasing the buildup by yourself, then that reduces the risk of actually doing it with someone else whom you don’t want to! This energy usually needs to get released somehow.

elafina · 36-40, F

@Ambroseguy80 thank you, it's a great reply ❤️

elafina · 36-40, F

@Ambroseguy80 but I liked your initial reply too, I've felt edgy for the most part of my life. Now I'm willing to change and be more spacious and steady perhaps, but it's a messy transition still..

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

@elafina Edgy is quite normal. And honestly, so is messy. ;) 😃