i have finally found an intelligent way to explain properly and respectfully the matter of the "spoiled" girls

the point is that yes all the things said about "spoiled" girls are true , but in reality , those are actually positive things , qualities that entitle them to use inferior people as spittoons , and of course , the spittoons must understand that this is part of the privilege of be took in consideration by their betters, the real shame infact is when the superior person for some reason hate the inferiors and don't want to have anything to do with them, so from now on , wherever an inferior hear about a "spoiled" person that blablabla , it will understand that in truth that person deserve adoration