I Am In A Very Happy Domestic Discipline Marriage
How I became a TiH
My dear husband PeterTheTherapist has already written, how he became and HOH:
https://similarworlds.com/4313435-I-Am-Looking-For-People-Interested-In-Domestic-Dis/2044923-How-I-became-an-HOH-It-started-already-as-I-was-14
So I thought it might be relevant if I told how I became a TiH (wife)
I was really not something I was dreaming about from a very young age.
In fact, I think it was my first relationship that opened my eyes for the kind of relationship I was looking for – or maybe more correctly, what I was not looking for!
My first partner, whom I never married, but became father of all my three daughters anyhow, was a man who never really knew what he wanted and who left more or less all decisions to me.
I should not talk too badly of him, as my three wonderful daughters are living proofs that he also possessed some good genes, but I could live with his weakness.
Shortly after we broke up, I met Peter – a man much older than myself, and a type I never thought I would fall for.
Yet, I did.
I fell for his maturity, his calmness, his life experience and for his natural authority.
It did not take him long to make it clear to me, what kind of a relationship he wanted, and it did not take me much longer to realise that a DD relationship was exactly what I was looking for, at least if it was with him.
A bit less than a year after we met, we married, and I have not regretted that step for a second in the nearly 10 years we have been together.
I am not suppressed in any way, as I walked into this relationship by my own free will and by own choice, and I love to serve and obey my man every day.
It has been said that spankings while growing up can lead to submission in adult life.
I was certainly spanked growing up, and I feel no resent towards my stepmother or my father for that, and I have the best relationship with both of them today.
However, I sense no connection between the spankings I received as a child and my will to submit to my husband as a grown woman – apart from the fact that I hate being spanked just as much as I did then!
I am certainly not a masochist who likes to be spanked. On the contrary! I do my best to avoid them, but I also realise that I deserve and need them from time to time.
Fortunately, I am rarely punished. I do my very best to be a good and obedient wife and housewife, not just to avoid being punished, but so much more because I love my husband!
I know this will result in an outcry from feminists and others who refuse to even understand this lifestyle, but I have written this for all those who recognize themselves in my words!
Bless you all
Helle
My dear husband PeterTheTherapist has already written, how he became and HOH:
https://similarworlds.com/4313435-I-Am-Looking-For-People-Interested-In-Domestic-Dis/2044923-How-I-became-an-HOH-It-started-already-as-I-was-14
So I thought it might be relevant if I told how I became a TiH (wife)
I was really not something I was dreaming about from a very young age.
In fact, I think it was my first relationship that opened my eyes for the kind of relationship I was looking for – or maybe more correctly, what I was not looking for!
My first partner, whom I never married, but became father of all my three daughters anyhow, was a man who never really knew what he wanted and who left more or less all decisions to me.
I should not talk too badly of him, as my three wonderful daughters are living proofs that he also possessed some good genes, but I could live with his weakness.
Shortly after we broke up, I met Peter – a man much older than myself, and a type I never thought I would fall for.
Yet, I did.
I fell for his maturity, his calmness, his life experience and for his natural authority.
It did not take him long to make it clear to me, what kind of a relationship he wanted, and it did not take me much longer to realise that a DD relationship was exactly what I was looking for, at least if it was with him.
A bit less than a year after we met, we married, and I have not regretted that step for a second in the nearly 10 years we have been together.
I am not suppressed in any way, as I walked into this relationship by my own free will and by own choice, and I love to serve and obey my man every day.
It has been said that spankings while growing up can lead to submission in adult life.
I was certainly spanked growing up, and I feel no resent towards my stepmother or my father for that, and I have the best relationship with both of them today.
However, I sense no connection between the spankings I received as a child and my will to submit to my husband as a grown woman – apart from the fact that I hate being spanked just as much as I did then!
I am certainly not a masochist who likes to be spanked. On the contrary! I do my best to avoid them, but I also realise that I deserve and need them from time to time.
Fortunately, I am rarely punished. I do my very best to be a good and obedient wife and housewife, not just to avoid being punished, but so much more because I love my husband!
I know this will result in an outcry from feminists and others who refuse to even understand this lifestyle, but I have written this for all those who recognize themselves in my words!
Bless you all
Helle
