A good sobbing butt beating can be very carthetic, its can be a catalytic to purge narrative emotions and recenters you. If I decide I want that kind of spanking, I want to be spanked for a very long time while I am crying and just until I loose my composure.
As for humiliation my man makes be so the Shuckem and shuffle. My boyfriend always spanked my tiny bare butt. He wants me fully clothed but completely bare I have to Shuck'em and shuffle. https://similarworlds.com/30-Miscellaneous/2584395-Shuckem-and-Shuffle-My-Mike-likes-his-prespanking?sort=1&page=1
It humbles me, recenters me and has cured my depression. The addrelline rush, endorphin high and carthetic release I get and it psychologically and emotionally be reduce to bawling child to my man is special when he hold me.in his arms while I cry and sob in his arms.
Does that make sense?
