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I Believe In Moderate Domestic Discipline

You saw the title now please don't lecture me on what you believe a relationship should be like. Every relationship is different. Meaning your style might not be everyone's style. I think everyone should be free to arrange whatever they want in a relationship and many people enjoy the dynamic of domestic discipline.
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Anyways I love it. Being controlled feels freeing. Knowing what to do and having rules you have to obey while acknowledging the fact that if you don't obey you will have to deal with the punishments you don't enjoy for not being a good partner. Giving your partner that much power over you that you will find difficult to take back. It's simple. It's plain clear, and it encourages communication even when you don't feel like it, and it can even make the relationship more alive sexually and outside the bed. Maybe the reason I enjoy it so much is because of how challenging I am as a person. I want to know my boundaries according to what he wants the boundaries to be. I am such a unhinged person. I tend to be outspoken and I challenge everything I am around. It's just peaceful being in check.
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
Whatever works for you is fine. Glad you discovered that.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@Mikemcneil Thank You!
shockerllnl · 41-45, M
To each their own, I say live and let live.
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@shockerllnl I completely agree :)
Just be careful who you give that to...
LittleAnonymousChick · 22-25, F
@VeronicaJane That's true but I feel most men already have a difficult idea with even being dominant so I doubt that will be a problem.
will999 · 70-79, M
@LittleAnonymousChick You're quite right that most men already have trouble with the very idea of being dominant. Unreasonable prejudice against this sexual preference is very high in the community as a whole. We need a way to communicate our preference without sending everyone else running off for the hills. Male dominance has become a pejorative term. Many people need reminding that it is still very satisfying when it is a freely chosen adult lifestyle option. Perhaps we need a new term for it. The terms "Domestic Discipline" or "Male Dominance" both sound a little bit Neanderthal. Suggestions for an alternative name anyone? I have no problem with the term "Moderate Domestic Discipline" but there may also be another term that is street legal.
ASouthernGentleman · 31-35, M
Most people your age do not know for certain what they want or need. Congratulations on having the wisdom and foresight to know exactly what you want and need. I wish you much success on your journey through life. May you find what you are looking for.
CFNMike · M
A very mature and well thought through understanding. It sounds to me like you have a sound basis for a long and fulfilled relationship
Dom987654321 · 51-55, M
I completely agree

 
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