Power imbalance in CFNM?
I used to do life modelling, when I was in my early twenties. These weren't technically CFNM situations, since the genders were usually mixed. Then, about fifteen years ago, I heard about life drawing classes for hen parties and I immediately applied. I got the job and did a few shifts. Got paid £25 each, for a bunch of parties that I would have happily done for free.
Then I got promoted. I was asked to run the business in Scotland. And I got paid £25 per person attending a party. I was still getting naked, still running classes, still having a great time - and getting paid substantially more. I was loving it.
I was at a regular party, once. A friend's party. And my friends all knew I liked being naked and they tended to be liberal, playful people. So I often got naked at these parties, too. One time, I got talking to somebody and we were having a great conversation.
Suddenly, he made a connection. "You're Naked Graham," he says. I didn't actually know I was "Naked Graham" until that moment, but it made sense. I get naked any time I can. And my friends were completely cool with it, so it became a default thing. Again, this might not technically be CFNM, because the genders were mixed. In fact, there was often a pretty broad spectrum of genders present.
Anyway... at one life drawing party, one of the women made a jokey comment along the lines of "little naked slave boy" and I laughed and said "it's really funny the way you lot think you're the ones in charge." That line got the biggest laugh of the day.
I'm not sure any of it fully, genuinely qualifies as CFNM, though. When I hear about CFNM, there's usually a power imbalance. The naked men are usually vulnerable, while the clothed women are usually empowered. I've never felt disempowered and rarely felt vulnerable. In fact, I think I'm most myself, when I'm naked. People seeing me like that are seeing me.
I would still like to experience a genuine CFNM event, though.
Then I got promoted. I was asked to run the business in Scotland. And I got paid £25 per person attending a party. I was still getting naked, still running classes, still having a great time - and getting paid substantially more. I was loving it.
I was at a regular party, once. A friend's party. And my friends all knew I liked being naked and they tended to be liberal, playful people. So I often got naked at these parties, too. One time, I got talking to somebody and we were having a great conversation.
Suddenly, he made a connection. "You're Naked Graham," he says. I didn't actually know I was "Naked Graham" until that moment, but it made sense. I get naked any time I can. And my friends were completely cool with it, so it became a default thing. Again, this might not technically be CFNM, because the genders were mixed. In fact, there was often a pretty broad spectrum of genders present.
Anyway... at one life drawing party, one of the women made a jokey comment along the lines of "little naked slave boy" and I laughed and said "it's really funny the way you lot think you're the ones in charge." That line got the biggest laugh of the day.
I'm not sure any of it fully, genuinely qualifies as CFNM, though. When I hear about CFNM, there's usually a power imbalance. The naked men are usually vulnerable, while the clothed women are usually empowered. I've never felt disempowered and rarely felt vulnerable. In fact, I think I'm most myself, when I'm naked. People seeing me like that are seeing me.
I would still like to experience a genuine CFNM event, though.
