Anyone else not able to swallow?

I have bever been able to swallow cum much less have it hit the back of my throat. I want to be able to do that. But at the moment I literally can't. I will vomit. Not because I don't want it. My body will reject it. I have recently discovered how to make my man squirt his precum and when it hits the back of my throat I come very close to vomiting. Not always though. I think it depends on the angle. I have opened up my throat over time though and I can get his dick all the way back now with some occasional gagging. I used to have a very sensitive gag reflex but that has improved over time. So what I'm trying to do is get some advice or insight or whatever. Has anyone ever been able to swallow after working on the gag reflex and will i ever be able to?

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pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

I really know next to nothing about it but it sounds like you could consider practicing on your gag reflex with a dildo. Despite what men or movies say, there really is no need what so ever to take all of his penis down your throat, the most sensitive portion is the glans, frenulum and the end two or so inches...in my case down to my circumcision scar. I can't speak for other men but I very much like providing oral sex and I definitely prefer vaginal intercourse to receiving oral sex.... My Wife prefers it this way as well (and she is in charge).

Pecifini · 46-50, F

@pdqsailor1 I thought about doing that. But it's not like he's pressuring me. It's something I want.

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

Yes, but you do not need to conform to a porn expectation of yours as to what oral sex for a man entails.. wanting to pleasuring him orally can be with focus upon what actually feels good to him not what others are selling as THE way to do it.. there is room for you to rock his world YOUR way rather than think for one moment that the only way is to get all of his penis down your throat... Suction, licking him, playing with his frenulum, your tongue rubbing, circling his glans, using your hand to tension the skin on his penis while you suck on him.. You can play with him to see what works for him and for you with out taking his glans past your tonsils.. I mean this is supposed to be FUN right? I am the same way on my Wife's vulva.. and I REALLY love doing this.. and showing that I am enjoying myself builds esteem and confidence.. enthusiasm helps a lot...... @Pecifini

Pecifini · 46-50, F

@pdqsailor1 ummm I know what I'm doing and it's not some porn expectation. It's a kink of mine. He enjoys every bit of it. I really don't know where you got the ideal that it's an expectation or it's not fun for either of us.

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

Your comments make it sound like it’s the last thing you want to do. Gaging the taste meh….@Pecifini

Pecifini · 46-50, F

@pdqsailor1 where? What comments?

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

@Pecifini "I will vomit. " and "I can get his dick all the way back now with some occasional gagging. I used to have a very sensitive gag reflex but that has improved over time."... Not my words....I now get that its your kink but sexual pleasure should be mutually pleasurable. I do not want my Wife to do things she is not able to do, dearly loves to do and I want her to keep coming back for more.. SHE is getting friskier than I EVER figured.. she loves getting oral so much she on her own keeps her vulva bare.. do I love it? darn right I do she is loving crotchless panties with her nighties.. I love lifting the hem of her nightie to get my mouth all over her.. the every day part is all her.. If someone would have told my 18 year old self that I would end up making love with my Wife each and every single day .. I would never EVER have believed it.. Do I do every thing I can to make certain she enjoys herself? Yes.. and she is very much enjoying herself.. but she does not want to suck on my penis and I am ok with this.. I MUCH prefer to cum inside her pussy.. I am a very much blessed fellow and I happen to know it..

Pecifini · 46-50, F

@pdqsailor1 yeah I was saying how my body reacts. I never said he or I didn't enjoy it. It's is mutually pleasurable. I still don't know why you think it isn't.

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

@Pecifini Why I said this? Because vomit and gag did not sound like words used to indicated that you were enjoying yourself.. an orgasm sounds like you are enjoying yourself... I mean forgive me if I misconstrued what you wrote but rest assured that I did read what you wrote..

Pecifini · 46-50, F

@pdqsailor1 yeah you did misconstru what i said. And you didn't listen

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

I read pretty carefully... but ok sorry... keep up the good work @Pecifini

Pecifini · 46-50, F

@pdqsailor1 no all you wanted to do was broadcast what you and your wife do. And btw I do orgasm when his sweet cock is deep in my throat