Is bondage more about trust or control for you?

Bondage has always seemed interesting to me because there’s so much more to it than just being tied up.

For some people, it’s about giving up control. For others, it’s about taking control. And for many, the biggest part is simply trusting someone enough to feel safe while exploring something intense and different.

What attracts you most to bondage or BDSM — the trust, the power exchange, the anticipation, the feeling of control, or the feeling of surrender?

Curious to hear how others see it.