Need advice

Hi
Im new to the site and today after months of hiding i finally had the courage to let my owner know that i have feelings for him romantically. He understood why i would but told me that he doesnt want a romantic relationship with me its mixing the 2 isnt for him and he has to have it separate. I dont know how to manage right now as ive known him for 10 years and dont want to lose the dynamic that we have but also i cant control the way that i feel

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Bonby2 · 61-69, M

So as of the last 10 years he has been your owner? Master?

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Bonby2 · 61-69, M

@Sarahrhiannon0 yes I understand give it some time but of they don't change perhaps it's time

Sarahrhiannon0 · 31-35, F

@Bonby2 thank you for the advice

Bonby2 · 61-69, M

@Sarahrhiannon0 wish you the best I know it's difficult for you

InstructHer · 61-69, M

Does he take you for sexual needs without the romance?

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InstructHer · 61-69, M

@Sarahrhiannon0 I personally prefer that. The girl should serve and obey and be loved. Collaring demonstrates that.

Sarahrhiannon0 · 31-35, F

@InstructHer yeah im a collared slave

InstructHer · 61-69, M

@Sarahrhiannon0 I feel collaring means he should show care and love to you.

496sbc · 41-45, M

very very sorry

looking4thesun · M

Well he is being honest. And your style relationship is built on trust and honesty. Much more so than a traditional relationship. Which of course also needs it to survive. Just that your dynamic is so much different

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

You may need to ask him for a short break to sort your own feelings out.... As a slave, you put your trust in your Owner and that can and should have a little bit more than just dynamic to it, there should be care, it almost feels like total emotional detachment and cheating how he wants it

Sarahrhiannon0 · 31-35, F

@WolfGirlwh0r3 thats what u3 has suggested a temporary break

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

@Sarahrhiannon0 Would that upset you if you saught a more worthy person to love as its clear your Owner is not them

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