can someone introduce me to this bdsm dom role thing

things i have to know ,the rule, the limits if there is, and how can i be more dominant, how can i find my sub, is it true that the sub who accept the dom, it is not the dom who domnate her ? iis she your sub just in bed or in all time ? AND if you can share how you find your female sub with us will be great,

Top | New | Old

th3r0n · 41-45, M

On some level you have to learn female psychology, learn to take control on a psychological level and physical level at the same time, and then leverage that to excite the woman and keep her in submission

It's slightly different with each woman, but it's done by feel

Find some of them that like being dommed and they can tell you what they like, just remember that when they're not cooperating you focus on getting the cooperation back, not giving what they like, unless it's the same haha that works out well for the girls that like being spanked

If you make them cry they might like it but they still submit, remember that when they're broken down they're the most pliable

View 5 more replies »

BrattyLJ · 31-35, F

@th3r0n I'm a discipline girl... giving or getting... the mental aspect of getting discipline spanked makes it work for me emotionally....

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@BrattyLJ I do that to keep women in line, depending how severe I may enjoy it but I tend to more when I know the woman is into it

th3r0n · 41-45, M

@BrattyLJ just realized I messaged you before

I spank for discipline, though with most cases being where women feel arousal but also hate the pain, I do feel aroused but the feeling of sympathy can be stronger to the point of cutting it off if I have to give a very forceful spanking to a girl that doesn't like it, but keeping a woman that likes being spanked in line is easy and fun -- no reason to feel sympathy for a woman having a good time, and I do find it fun to spank hard when a woman wants me to

Since I sent a first message and can't message again, just reply there if you feel like chatting

Add a comment...