Is it normal to feel like crying while dirty talking someone ?
I really love him, but when he pushes me to say some things I feel like crying, cuz I really don't wanna say those things...But I do want to make him happy...
26-30, F
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TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
No, being with him shouldn't make you feel that way. And he should want you to be happy too.
If I found myself feeling like I had to do something that made me uncomfortable in order to please the man in my life, I would do some soul searching and ask myself why it's so hard to maintain firm boundaries, even with the people I love. But I would also wonder why he felt that it was more important for him to always get what he wanted than for us both to be happy, and at some point I would have to talk to him about that. This isn't okay.
If I found myself feeling like I had to do something that made me uncomfortable in order to please the man in my life, I would do some soul searching and ask myself why it's so hard to maintain firm boundaries, even with the people I love. But I would also wonder why he felt that it was more important for him to always get what he wanted than for us both to be happy, and at some point I would have to talk to him about that. This isn't okay.