Not bragging but

Just turned down my fourth offer for an arranged marriage

Like

I’m just a walking chef and baby machine right now in the community’s eyes

So iv been very creative with my refusals

Today I said sure
As long as he is ready to risk his life to fight the blasphemy laws in Pakistan let’s do it
Let’s move there and fight for justice
There’s a chance we may get attacked by a mob….

The family looked really uneasy

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JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M

Sorry for this. Sounds so backward.

I hope you find a man to love, and then maybe marry him later if you so desire.

Carlisle · F

@JoyfulSilence it’s old fashioned for sure
But the thought process of the men asking is definitely backwards
So
My next excuse is
They have to cook and clean and I’ll be bringing home the cash

JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M

@Carlisle

What if you guys are rich and can hire a cook and servants? And dine out a lot.

I dine out a lot.

Carlisle · F

@JoyfulSilence sorry I don’t understand 🙂

JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M

@Carlisle Maybe he does not want to cook, either. But if one or both of you were rich neither of your would have to cook, your servants or restaurants could do all the cooking!