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As Covid surges in the US, Americans can’t get vaccinated: ‘terrified I might kill somebody'

As Covid surges in the US, Americans can’t get vaccinated: ‘terrified I might kill somebody'

The FDA is allowing the vaccine for people 65 and older, but younger people need to have an underlying condition

By Marina Dunbar/The Guardian
Mon 8 Sep 2025 08.00 EDT


For many Americans, the new Covid vaccine guidelines from the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA), spearheaded by health secretary Robert F Kennedy Jr and his highly controversial Make America Healthy Again (MAHA) movement, have added another layer of stress to an increasingly inaccessible healthcare system.


The agency authorized Covid vaccines for people 65 and older, who are known to be more at risk from serious illnesses from Covid infections, but younger people will only be eligible if they have an underlying medical condition that makes them particularly vulnerable.

With this upcoming fall and winter – the first where the US government hasn’t recommended widespread Covid vaccinations – these changes have introduced a creeping sense for many that their ageing or immunocompromised loved ones are in danger.

For Madison Heckle, a 33-year-old attorney in the final stretch of wedding planning, the stakes feel personal. She has struggled with frequent illness ever since first contracting Covid in 2021.

“Ever since then, I just catch everything,” she said. Though she expressed her frustrations with a weakened immune system, she had her doubts that she would qualify for vaccine coverage under the new guidelines.

Her immediate worry is simple: not being bedridden on the day she says “I do”. “Weddings are expensive, and I don’t want to be sick that day if I can prevent it, and so I just want to get the vaccine,” she said. “I’ve gotten my booster every year.”

Yet the new rules have complicated what was once routine. Instead of stopping by CVS, as she has in past years, Heckle found herself on the phone with her insurer, navigating coverage questions and learning she’d need to go to a different pharmacy.

“I just am really hoping that I don’t have to risk being sick on my wedding day,” she said.

Though she was relieved to find out her vaccine would still be covered in some capacity, she’s still worried that her wedding – attended by people of all age groups – will likely host a significant number of guests who won’t be vaccinated. She doesn’t want anyone to get sick because they were there.

“I don’t know how many of the people who will be at my wedding are trying to get vaccinated, or how many qualify,” she said. “It just feels like it’s so much more complicated than it’s ever been before to get a vaccine.”

For 18-year-old student Zeke Fraser-Plant, the new guidelines heightened concerns he already carries daily. His parents and a close friend continue to live with long-term effects from contracting Covid: “My father has a lot of problems with brain fog. My mother loses her sense of smell completely. It comes back off and on.” His friend, who caught Covid as a teenager, struggles with memory.

Fraser-Plant’s his biggest fear has just been made stronger. “I’m absolutely terrified that I might kill somebody I know by bringing it home to them,” he said.

Unlike Heckle, Fraser-Plant does not automatically qualify for coverage. He and his family are prepared to pay out of pocket, even considering travel abroad. “It’s also a possibility that we might go out of the country to get the vaccine, if that becomes necessary,” he said.

But cost is only part of the concern. As he prepares to enter community college after a year of service with the Washington Conservation Corps, he worries about being surrounded by classmates who are now less likely to be vaccinated.

“With community college, I mean, it’s a total crapshoot,” he said. “I don’t think most people are going to take it well, if you just walk up and ask them about their vaccination status or how seriously they take Covid.”

His unease is understandable: his grandmother recently survived cancer, leaving her immune system fragile. He takes every precaution he can – masking, boosters, vigilance – but fears that there’s only so much he can do with an increasingly unvaccinated public.

“With the way vaccination rates are going, it’s just terrifying,” he said. “I just don’t know why more people don’t take these kinds of things seriously.”

Haley, a 40-year-old hairstylist from Portland, Oregon, is anxious about her job as someone who interacts with several people each day.

“I am a person in a public job that would prefer to be vaccinated to protect myself and others, and I don’t know if I’ll qualify now,” she said, adding that she feels that the current administration’s views on vaccines are “very, very dangerous”.

Roger, an emergency room physician from Alaska, said that healthcare decisions “should be based on scientific evidence, and not based on pseudoscientific ideology”. He says that he still witnesses many people die or become permanently disabled from Covid, and he’s afraid that those numbers are about to soar.

“I fear that as an emergency physician, I will see more unfortunate children and adults becoming ill and dying due to the lies propagated by this administration,” he said.

Elena, who is retired and living in Los Angeles, currently has stage 4 cancer and is on chemotherapy. Though she still qualifies for the vaccine, her 59-year-old husband apparently will not.

“Would my vaccination protect me if the person I live with gets sick? Possibly not,” she said. “And my chemo is incompatible with the only available treatment for Covid. It seems obvious that household members of immune-suppressed patients should also be eligible.”

Tammy Hansen, a 61-year-old librarian from Illinois, shares similar concerns of infecting a vulnerable loved one with the virus. She is about to become the caretaker for her 85-year-old mother following a major cancer surgery and ongoing chemotherapy.

“I want the vaccine so I can double protect her from getting Covid,” Hansen said. “My husband is 79 and I also worry about transmitting Covid to him.”

She added: “I swear if I get Covid and give it to my mom and she dies, I’ll be taking some kind of action. These fuckers are nuts.”
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ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
Does the CDC actually have any power over who gets an approved vaccine? I know they can post guidelines, but if you want the COVID vaccine can't you just go to the local Walgreens and get the shot?
JSul3 · 70-79
@ChipmunkErnie It likely depends on having a doctor prescribe the shot.....and if it will be covered by insurance or if you have to pay out of pocket for it.

ABC News did a test. One reporter over 65....forgot what state....went in and got the update Covid shot, no questions asked. Another reporter, in his 50s was in NY, and was refused the shot.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@JSul3 Our son, in his 30s, went and got his yesterday. He never mentioned anything about doctors or prescriptions that I heard, just made the appointment via phone with Walgreens.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@JSul3 At least in Norway you have to have a doctor's prescription for all vaccines except influenza. For influenza you just ask for it at the pharmacy.
JSul3 · 70-79
@ninalanyon Update: NY Gov Hochul just signed EO, stating that anyone who wants the vaccine can get it.

Like many issues, it's becoming a state rights to determine who can or can't get vaccine access.

In Texas:
Texans aged 65 and older and those under 65 with high-risk conditions are fully eligible to receive the updated vaccine.

Healthy Texans under 65 who want the vaccine may need to consult with a doctor for a prescription and should check with their insurance provider regarding coverage and potential costs.
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@ChipmunkErnie Just saw in the newspaper last night that while Walgreens was still giving the vaccines CVS is asking for age/medical status before giving it.
@ChipmunkErnie Good question!

The CDC recommendation may determine in some states certain factors such as: can a pharmacist administer the vaccination without a physicians order, whether insurance plans will cover the cost of the vaccination, and how much vaccine will be stock piled.

Now look at Florida which just ended vaccine mandates. Children may be denied the COVID vaccine perhaps even with a physicians prescription (although that is still unclear) even if they have elderly people living with them who might contract COVID from the unvaccinated child.

The issue is: these “revised” CDC recommendations were the product of an unfit individual who is highly biased and is not qualified to make any such recommendations! And this has been clearly demonstrated by his gross mishandling of the recent Texas measles outbreak!
@ChipmunkErnie Several prominent medical specialty Academies and Societies are publishing their own recommendations (I posted an abbreviated list earlier and others have come out since), but if you want a quick answer to a specific question just look at what the recommendations were during the Biden administration.