I take it day by day, and just do my best to respirate; I'm having a hard time now, finding a good way out...

@BrandNewMan not yet, I was not planning on this exactly. I just found out for sure yesterday. She doesn't want anything from me though and we don't have kids together, so at least I have that going for me.

@HowtoDestroyAngels Understand .. you'll still need a lawyer and dont be surprised if she changes her tune
after talking with one. My W, who never cared about earning money, now wants every dime she can get.