We used to have a fourth girl member of the band - who I won't name here...
She was a good musician too, and like me often sang backing vocals, but she had some problems and they seemed to increase with the way we developed our audience, and our following, and she experienced some claustrophobic crises with performances, and as a result, she jumped from a bridge to her death, about six months ago!
We are all still pretty numb about it, and yes, suicide among the young here is quite a problem with certain situations. We miss her immensely!