I've blocked him (the ex) I realized that I was attracted to him because of trauma and he's a...

It's difficult to change how we are wired - good for you that you see it. Block, ignore, accept mothing but what is best for you!

Degbeme · 70-79, M

Yeah it`s time to think of you.

496sbc · 41-45, M

so sorry hun

hunkalove · 70-79, M

No monsters on SW. Just us mice. And a few rats.

OlderSometimesWiser · F

Sounds like you’re doing some great work on yourself and getting stronger and more confident every day. Just keep moving forward with healthy, positive decision making and life will hopefully be looking much brighter. 🙂

GohantheThird · M

Always good to focus on yourself.

EldritchFox

I very recently got out of something similar. It took years to get away be the chemistry was so strong. But that is due to them being a parasite and you having very valuable things to offer. It will never stop being a game to them. I had to block and go no contact.

It gets better 🖤 much much better

JohnnyNoir · 61-69, M

Good riddance. Time to focus on yourself

SirNedKelly · M

Sadly you are stuck at the moment, unless you can find some nice place to live and the children are a major concern

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Good keep him blocked

romell · 51-55, M

In short.. stockholm syndrome lol

Mrnotsonew · 61-69, M

You have to do what is best for you. Don’t need to have another one in your life.

Sapio · 51-55, M

At least you recognize the pattern of behavior. Just focus on you and what you really want. Don't let red flags be your guide or you'll repeat history.

class · F

Unintentionally?

ShenaniganFoodie · 41-45, M