I have had ED for over 20 years [I Erectile Dysfunction]

I used to say “ I suffer from erectile distinction.” I have used a prescribed vacuum pump system, Viagra, Cialis, Lavitra, supplements, bands, sleeves, so, finally, After many years of “ suffering” I decided to accept it, embrace it.
Now I say “ I’m impotent!” I am an impotent man, but that does not make me any less of a man. I’m still a man, only thing is my penis doesn’t get hard.
And the thing is, most men over 40 have some degree of ED. Hopefully they will be able to admit it.

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Frank52

It can happen to many men and is rarely discussed. No shame because there's no fault.

Tugasaki · 61-69, M

I have that problem but im diabetic too that contributes to that issue along with my age, i can be vompletely naked in front of a guy or woman, and that small penis will not grow any bigger.i have accepted that fact.

Pauly · 70-79, M

@Tugasaki I hear you Buddy! Mine does nothing, so I’ve named him Mr. Limpy!

Tugasaki · 61-69, M

@Pauly i have had surgery bilateral epidymectomy, both epidymides were removed on both testicles, i can not produce any sperm the only thing that comes out is prostrate fluid which is mostly clear and oderless.it flows out way to early before i can fully feel a orgasm.its a messy site,lol.

Ozdharma · 61-69, M

I think it is common and the reason men get to enjoy taking it themselves from virile men

Pauly · 70-79, M

I believe you are correct. Men in our age group still have the desire, we just can’t perform, so we turn to other ways for pleasure. @Ozdharma

ArishMell · 70-79, M

I admit and accept it. I am quite small down there too, but used to be able to make love.

Pauly · 70-79, M

@ArishMell I’m small too. Hated that when I was in school but later came to terms with my size

ArishMell · 70-79, M

@Pauly I can empathise with that although I don't recall ever having that problem. I have though, like you, come to accept it.

Majorlatency · M

Sorry to hear that, you should be commended as you have manned up and owned your problem! It doesn't own you.. A lot of men can't and that's a tragedy.

CuriousCuckold · 70-79, M

I was rendered impotent due to prostate cancer a number of years ago. I am sorry that you have struggled. You are correct that you are every bit a man, but impotence is something that certainly keeps us from being intimate with a woman. My wife needs more than oral and masturbation.

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Try ginger root

Pauly · 70-79, M

I have. @MrBrownstone

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Pauly · 70-79, M

@samanthaX I try!

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