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How Wives Should Treat Their Husbands ... ?

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1.) Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs.

2.) Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

3.) Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

4.) Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

5.) Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables.

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dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
Damn it... now I want a wife.
SW-User
@dumpstermeow Me, too and I ain't gay??
SW-User
@dumpstermeow LOL 🤣
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@Projecthonest Totally agree, I would love to have a wife too
rckt148 · 61-69, M
Before WW2 this was a way of life
but women having to build planes and ammunition ,uniforms otherwise fill the roles of men ,
When men came home they did not want to go back to being just house wives and Moms .
For a while it seemed OK ,,MOM and Dad both working ,but as it caught on
Jobs for men decreased ,,soon it took both to work so they could have the basics that pre war a man could do alone
So as men opposed woman filling their jobs since they would work cheaper
Women fought for the right by law to have those jobs ,burn their bra's and show they were just as able as men ,and I am one who never said they weren't
But now look at our world ,
Kids raised themselves ,
Many Dads and they can say what they want it was worse in black families
The Dad bailed leaving Mom to do it all alone
No Dads to teach young boys how to be MEN
The role of Provider ,Protector was now destroyed
Women no longer wanted a man to hold a door for them ,they could do it themselves
To provide for and protect her ,now that was seen as an insult ,"I DONT NEED A MAN"
and now they cry they can't find one
We kicked God out of our lives that said man should not lay with a man
to take care of our women and protect them as she is the weaker vessel
and now sin runs rampant ,parents killing their kids ,kids killing their parents
we need armed men in the schools we used to think was safe ,a place to get a "Higher Education " ,now they have to lower the standards each year just to keep them from dropping out in record numbers
We give a 2 yr old a cell phone and by 5 they are telling you what they will and will not do ,discipline taken out of the home
Notice most of the Pics were from a time gone by or a cartoon
the world you speak of is gone
but I lived in it
to bad its just a memory ,one women used to love
when ships were wood and men were steal ,,
as Cher says ,,"If I could turn back time "
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@Nimbus then you add in robot assembly lines ,new machines that also cut down on man power ,
EPA regulations on pollution causing companies to go over seas to avoid the transition to go clean and green ,(We see many companies that did now selling power ,and the change actually saved their companies )
So many factors played into what we have today
but its all an attack on the family ,and its a deeper one them many can see
now its an all out war on God ,,He is not real
a new generation of God haters ,and our kids are killing each other ,
cops ambushed ,so now the FHP is in critical shape ,not enough officers
Jacksonville Fla a war zone ,not enough men want the job as cops
they need to give waivers for felon's so they can get Marines
our standards have all gone to pot ,"Who can tell us what is right and wrong "?
We are in bad shape ,,but this is just the beginning of sorrows
the worst is yet to come
Nimbus · M
@rckt148 Oooops!

I remember when they said the introduction of computers into many workplaces would lead to the 'working week' halving in the number of hours.
It never happened!
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Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
You know, I don't disagree with this. I think if a wife can stay home this should be expected. It's a different story if she also works full-time though.
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@Projecthonest 👍😏
Projecthonest · 41-45, F
It really is that simple ! But it does have to work both ways, I think. Keep each other happy ' @Jeephikelove
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@Projecthonest You're right...it is that simple. 😊
SW-User
I was raised by my great grandparents 3/4 of my childhood and this was well instilled in me.I haven't had many complaints from my Husband. Since I am the full time homemaker and he was the full time provider, it seemed like the least I could do. Because I feel this way, I have had many people( mostly females) dislike me, but my Husband loves me and really that is what matters to me.
SW-User
@SW-User I still am allowed to be who I am. He helps a lot, like last year when I was really sick. I also work part time, so he understands if things aren't perfect.
SW-User
I agree. I love making him happy, mostly because he is a good husband.
shuhak · M
What makes any of this a wife's "duty"? It takes 2 to make a marriage and both "participants" must give 100%. Expecting the other person to do certain "duties" is selfish (i.e. wife cleans house husband goes to work) and can lead to conflicts.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@shuhak Surprised you aren't taken by now...hehe.
Projecthonest · 41-45, F
i really want to now put a Ribbon in my hair and act gay !!!
SW-User
@Projecthonest So you can attract a wife?
Damn if she does all that I might want one, too...
Projecthonest · 41-45, F
@SW-User surely having a wife is great ! Especially a traditional one 😏
Strangely my wife and I have a more "traditional" marriage in that I am working and she is at home for a variety of reasons doing a variety of things-- but the spirit is totally NOT like this. She's doing her part to make us survive, and I'm doing mine. She's just as work weary, drained, and needs encouragement and a boost as me.
Honestwife · F
If I stayed at home, I would not have a problem with having a meal ready when he gets home. In fact, I do on my days off. I enjoy cooking and keeping everything done.@CopperCicada
😂😂😂 I don't do any of this shit. He cleans up after himself. I rarely cook because he's Military and never knows when he'll be home. I'm not making a dinner that will sit there forever. I chase after a 1 year old all day, he knows I don't have time to do my makeup every flipping night, just to wear it for an hour or two before we go to bed. I'm his wife not his personal maid.
SW-User
You know I just noticed it tells you to rest and then go tidy up the damn house how in the hell would she be relaxed after all that?
If he is expecting any lovin' after all that he'll be in for a greater disappointment then a cold meal and messy house...
AbbeyRhode · F
OK, I think you've had enough to drink now. 😂
AbbeyRhode · F
@Nimbus Egg salad, or grilled cheese? :)
Nimbus · M
@AbbeyRhode Yes, you can have one of those :)
AbbeyRhode · F
@Nimbus And you'll have the other? ☺
SW-User
Yeah ok where can I find one of those? The last one sure wasn't it.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@SW-User I'm sorry 😭
SW-User
@dumpstermeow it's fine. I'm used to it 🙄
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
@SW-User 😕
Madelenie · 26-30, F
it's probably just a dream
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Nimbus And it's very much alive to this day
Nimbus · M
@MartinTheFirst Really?
Where?
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Nimbus Everywhere. As you said, it wasn't a lifestyle for everyone, it was for some. It's still for some. It always will be...
Lol
I know it used to mean overtly happy like bubbly.. But i like to laugh anyway :)
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@SStarfish 😆
SW-User
if this is the way i'm expected to act it'll definitely make me gay
Goralski · 56-60, M
Lets not forget d customary bj
Nimbus · M
@Goralski 😮
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@Goralski Right...let's not forget that!
Reject · 26-30, M
I want to be this wife.
shaelan · 41-45, M
@Reject I held this role before and it was actually pretty sweet, except when she didn't give a fuck about how long I'd spent in the kitchen that day because the dinner was five minutes late, which happened on occasion.

You may suffer a different fate should your dreams come true.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
And what about the wife's list for her husband? I bet that one got crumpled up and tossed in the trash real quick didn't it?
SW-User
@cherokeepatti mine didn't. We're by no means perfect, and have our ups and downs, but compromise is an art lol.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@SW-User it sure is
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
That's great, is he going to not bitch about being the only one with an income or lord it over her that she doesn't do anything all day?
SW-User
And massage his little toes? Bleh!
Nimbus · M
@SW-User I'm sure Rob would love that! :)
SW-User
@Nimbus If he massages mine first we will talk... ;)
Honestwife · F
What if your husband gets home hours before you?
Nyloncapes · 61-69, M
Have a bath run for him,
Nimbus · M
@Nyloncapes Cool.
OMG that's dreadful LOL
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Sounds good but missed some spots.
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

 
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