Do you feel like you're important enough to be cared about or love. Do you feel like you are valued. Do you feel like you deserve . Do you feel like you are a good catch. Do you feel like you are worth it all.
There are many reasons why some of us may feel lacking or afraid of commitment. Some of us may feel unworthy. Some of us feel we don't deserve true love.
Do you feel like you as a person are a prize. 🏆 Think about that. Best answer wins ☺️🌛
I have value, but not to many who measure that in different ways. I am a good catch to those who value for the right reasons... to my way of thinking. lol Someone once thought I was a great person and worthy for baking my own bread, making my own bar soap and laundry soap and all the other things I do that seem to be a bit rarer in this world.
I am important enough.... and I realize I don't want to "settle" anymore. Nor do I want to compete for love, a second look, etc....
@SW-User nothing like some homemade bread. I like to dip it in spaghetti sauce. It’s probably why I need to exercise more. 😂
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@MayorOfCrushtown For me, garlic bread goes well with spaghetti and sauce. I gave up trying to lose any weight now. I'm just happy not to gain anymore. lol
I honestly don't think it's up to me to decide, and I don't know if a 'prize' would be a term i'd use. But with many telling me that I am an important part of their lives, it's nice to here. Being a mom and a grandmother, I have a family who loves me. I have many friends I am very close with, and we are like family. My customers tell me that they are grateful for me and my business, and they all refer others to me when my services are needed. That is where I get my worth and value from.
I’m not the richest, not the best looking, not the smartest, not the most talented, not the most patient….. but, I am kind, funny, I’m a good dad, and I have an awesome lady who thinks I’m a damn good catch. And that’s good enough for me.
To be honest I don’t care anymore if anyone cares or appreciates me. I’ve been backstabbed, abused and let down by soo many people. Even if some people cared I don’t think it’s going to benefit me. I just want God on my side
I suffered most of my life with self esteem issues. Never feeling like I ever measured up in most areas of life. Until I had kids. You know what the best part about that is? My kids like me. They really do. Man. When you earn the love and respect of your child the rest of the world can suck an egg. I really don't care what anyone else thinks of me as long as my kids like me. So am I a prize??? I am a gold metal, first place, best in show prize.
There was a time when I was a catch; a time when I was important enough in someone's life, for me to be her everything. I was precious to her. And it felt good.
Now, all I've got are the memories. I wish I could have that again, but I probably won't. I've gotten too old. And my value's depreciated with time.
There's a lot of young men out there. Young, handsome, good looks. It's their time to shine now. I'm just an old cranky bast^rd. I'm past my prime.
I think I have a lot to offer. I may not always be appreciated in the way that I want you but that doesn't change the fact that I do believe I think that I am uniquely a good addition to anyone's life that I care for.