I'd Like To Find My True Love

I am 22 and have never had someone love me, I've been single for 7 years. I've never had a serious relationship. I wonder if anyone will ever come along? Is it normal to be single for this long? Is there someone out there for me? I want love more than anything

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Busybee333 · 31-35, F

Being single is perfectly fine! Love cannot be rushed or forced.

It arrives on its own terms and there is pretty much nothing we can do except to be as lovable as we can, to love ourselves and the people around us as much as possible. Just like the spectrum of colors, love has its spectrum: there are many types of loves: not being a couple's love does not devalue it. Love needs to be present in our lives in colorful ways.

Love can be everywhere around you in everything in your life. Seek it, learn it, expand it.

Eventually a couple's love will also happen - your new attitude to life will attract it.

Don't worry - it will happen when it is supposed to. Meanwhile just make sure you stay receptive to it.

People's wisdom: " It is easy to be in couple, it is hard to maintain it" - better take your time and settle when you feel it right with someone you are really sure you can connect deep with, instead of rushing it with whoever out of pressure.

Wishing you all the love of the world! :D ♥

heyitsemma · 26-30, F

@Busybee333 Wow thank you so much!! <3