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QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
It does depend on the person, but when somebody touches me, I must be aware of it prior to contact.
No surprise touches
No surprise touches

SW-User
@QCDog2659 yes, me too... Unless it's someone very close
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@SW-User Even women with whom I am intimate must make sure I know when they will touch me

SW-User
@QCDog2659 I like an occasional surprise hug from the back if I haven't seen them yet in the space..
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@SW-User I would love for something like that to be able to happen, but it cannot.
Surprise touches lead to often unpleasant and painful responses of self-defense.
Surprise touches lead to often unpleasant and painful responses of self-defense.

SW-User
@QCDog2659 ah I understand, life... you can practice with a cat maybe:)
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@SW-User That did not work out well in the past.

SW-User
@QCDog2659 oh no 🙄 hope it'll get better 🙏
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
@SW-User After 40+ years, I am not counting on it happening. Lol

SW-User
@QCDog2659 yeah that's okay too, life has so many stuff to do and to focus 😺






