Soulmates are hogwash!! Created by marketing people over the years just to get people to buy their products..relationships are HARD WORK!! PERIOD!!! Especially after all the fairy dust has been washed off and reality hits you between the eyes...don't be fooled by TV commercials, or Disney, or any other entity trying to convince you otherwise...there is no "happily ever after"...you want something, you gotta work for it...there's no "magic formula"