I Want to Find My Soulmate

I'm not sure if I even have a soul mate. Ok, I think we all have different soul mates, and soul connections, but someone I love that will love me in return? Someone exists on this planet who can truly understand me, yet loves me anyway? I can believe this person exists, but they are not on Earth at this time. Maybe we will incarnate together in another lifetime, say in 100 or 200 years? Or maybe this person is currently living out their life on a different planet, say as a Pleidian or Arcturian or something? Or even some yet unknown planet? I don't think I'm compatible with any Earthly beings alive at this current point in time. I can get along with most people, but still lack a deep connection of the soul.