i love my cousin and it kind of sucks

i do love my cousin. a lot. it started in high school and im not sure why i started liking him but i did. some of my friends even knew this but they now all think i got over him. they didnt really think it was a big deal cos im adopted but it still bothered me. it still does cos even tho i am adopted hes still my cousin. hes also straight so i know he wouldnt ever want to be with me even if we werent cousins. its been 10 years now and it sucks seeing him when he visits the rest of our family, which isnt often thankfully. but still. i love him. he recently even broke up with his girlfriend recently and the fact that i was happy about that is awful. maybe thats why i dont want to actually get a boyfriend, cos ive been in love with my cousin for so long and i want something to happen.

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SW-User

[c=#4C0073]you just got to get over him .. coz he's straight[/c]

WatersCat · 26-30, T

@SW-User no. im p sure its i have need to get over him is cos hes my cousin.

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

If you are adopted, that makes him an adoptive cousin, and not a relation. In other words, it is not strange that you feel a connection, and my advice would be to share your feelings with him, and if they are reciprocated, go for it!🥰

WatersCat · 26-30, T

@novaguy2u even if he did somehow like me back it wouldnt work, mainly with out family. theyd somehow find out and id be to blame for it all. and if i tell him and he doesnt like me back it would make things awkward. well more awkward.

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

@WatersCat Yes, that's a point!😢

WatersCat · 26-30, T

@novaguy2u but who knows. maybe i will tell him one day.

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