I Love to Cuddle

I don't like when guys have a problem with being the little spoon every once in a while... It always makes me feel like a struggle for dominance and it gives me anxiety... It could just be societal norms making them homophobic because another person's body cradling their ass! Even though I am very much female, it could make them feel emasculated in some way... But when dear sets in, I can't help but feel dominated... It is a very unpleasant and confusing situation to be in.