I Love to Cuddle

Love To Cuddle, Boyfriend Doesn'T... As the title states, I love to cuddle, but my boyfriend doesn't. he also doesn't like to hold hands when we walk together... but he doesn't mind linking arms and walking. I mean, I get it that a lot of guys don't like to cuddle as it shows that their not "men" and that it shows their sensitive side or whatever.

I guess i just would like to find someone who also likes to cuddle, and maybe we could do and rp- type thing so that i don't feel this way.

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jasthrive

I think thats a bunch of crap. A real man cuddles his woman and makes her feel safe. What woman doesn't like to be cuddled by a dominate manly guy. That is a cop-out excuse if you ask me for a person that has connection issues not manly issues. I'd say he has insecure manly issues.

gr8ba

Linking arms are for pensioners. Tell him to give you a cuddle. Cuddles are the most intimate fun you can have with your clothes on. And cuddles should be compulsory. Xx. I would cuddle you babe no problem and no strings.

BigEb

...I don't agree with your post completely, gr8ba...for example I have no problem with a man and woman linking arms at any age...and cuddles should not be compulsory, they should be done out of the heart...when something is compulsory, it is done out of obligation, which is a poor reason to do anything that largely revolves around feeling...However, cuddles are much better than locking arms...a much more intimate and if this guy were truly a secure man, a much more enjoyable experience...I've never been married, but I would rather cuddle with a lady than most anything...

BlueCedarTree

I wish there was more public affection like you mention, holding hands and kissing in public. I like your story and hope things improve for the both of you.

pregowannabe · 31-35, F

Thanks, I hope so to. I probably mentioned it before but I truly think he is "the one."

azuremagus

Does he know how much that kind of intimacy means to you? If not, let him know and hopefully he'll try to be more affectionate. You have your needs and you deserve to have them fulfilled.

ForgottenMale

It is too bad that most men do not realize that cuddling is the perfect chance to play with boobies yet make it look like you are cuddling.

buckeye226

Cuddling is fun.

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