Craving Physical Contact

It's been almost a couple of months since he's touched me.... Except little pecks on the lips before leaving for work or before he goes to sleep.... I've tried but he's always tired or hurting.... I miss the old days when we couldn't get enough of each other......

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TallMtnMedic · M

Pull him aside and ask him whats going on, and watch his body language. Tell him to be blunt honest, no judgment.
Dont push him really hard, but push him. If hes not open to being blunt honest , then ultimately you tell him he will need counseling and youll go with him and wait in the waiting room.

If he says no, then may be time for an ultimatum.

Ontheroad · M

So yeah, something (obviously) is going on with him. It could be a simple, a bit of time thing that will take care of itself, or it could be the beginning of something serious.

Either way, it's something and left unattended (and addressed), can lead to a very sad, even disastrous future for the two of you.

Isthisit · F

Have you talked to him about how your feeling? There could be a number of things going on for him. He should really be open about that with you. It sounds like its time to seriously address the issue as its not fair on you to keep feeling that way.

Restlessmama · 41-45, F

@Isthisit He has a hard time talking about sex stuff

Isthisit · F

@Restlessmama ok thats a shame. At least he could let you know why he doesnt want to get intimate.

Josh1454 · M

It’s sad when these days come. Sadly they come fast to some people. I know a girl that’s been dating a guy for 3 months and still has to semi beg for contact.