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I Am Craving Physical Contact

OK, so I'm 56 years old and have been married for nearly 35 years. Problem is, the last 10 years of my union with my dear wife have been almost entirely devoid of intimate contact. The last 6 years has been a complete dry spell.

I have tried talking with her about this but it pretty much always comes back to her same response: "I'm sorry, but I'm just not interested in that anymore." It is frustrating because she just does not seem to want to even try to make it any better.

I guess I could understand her disinterest if I were hateful or abusive or a slovenly couch potato type, but I have worked very hard to take care of myself. And I more than hold up my end when it comes to the day-to-day stuff around home. I feel very much unappreciated but I'm afraid I'm way too old to consider divorce.

Anybody got any suggestions?
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GrinNude · 61-69, C
Ask her if she minds you having a 'fuck buddy' or a friend with benefits. What have you got to lose by asking?
@GrinNude Refusers like being in control. They rarely agree to this reasonable option.
GrinNude · 61-69, C
If she doesn't agree, then you could tell her that you don't need her permission to fulfil your basic human needs such as food, drink, shelter and intimacy...
@GrinNude As if she could be any more colder to him than she is now...
Spartan92 · 61-69, M
@GrinNude I would do that if I could find one. I have looked around on several web sites and various other places. All the gals I've talked to tell me the same thing: I'm a nice guy but they don't want to get involved with a married man. They're wanting a young single man that drives a Ferrari or something. Some I have run across on here or Experience Project were a long way off. It seems not too many gals (at least none that I have found) are online here in Missouri. Since I haven't found a willing FWB I haven't even said anything to the wife.