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I Have a Broken Heart

To all of you with a broken heart, those of you who find it difficult to make it through the day, those of you who are in pain, those who cant picture happiness ever again..... I just want to tell you, keep your chin up. It may feel like the worst while you are going through your pain, life seems to drag you down, and it never seems to get better... I have been there too, I started on EP because of a broken heart, that shattered my world.

It was tough, it was a struggle to find the motivation to do anything. I realized that i needed to make a change, and that is precisely what I did. Once I got out and reintroduced myself to the world, something beautiful happened... The most remarkable ability that we as humans possess is the ability to forget. Yes, we remember the pain, but we do not relive the feelings... We can remember the depression, but we never grasp the duration of the hardship... Once we are healed, we can look back, it makes the rough times easier, and we are able to look back and process and learn from our experiences.

I was crushed once, probably worse than most of you reading this right now. I thought my sky was never going to be blue again. I thought there was nothing left for me. But then the clouds cleared, and I was able to see the truth through the rain. My depression was bad yes, but through my struggles, i am a better person today.

When I look back now, the pain and hurt i was feeling never seems to match or can i even fathom what i was experiencing at ground zero. I believe in all of you, regardless of your situation. You hold the keys to your happiness, it maybe tuff, but it is on you to pull yourself out of this funk. Find something you love and devote yourself to it. Through new passions will bring new light through the clouds.... And remember, flowers never fully bloom until they had a little rain.

There are plenty on here that are willing to lend and ear if you need it, including myself.
SW-User
This is the best post I have read on this site since I joined. Thank you for taking the time to write and share this.
Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
@HarryZ: Thank you, if it helps even one person to motivate them to get better, it was worth every second.
TienZong · 31-35, F
This is the best post on this website!

Thank you!
YuukiKen · 26-30, C
Found this post while scrolling through this group. Thank you so much for reminding me that everything will be ok eventually. My days seems like a dark cloudy abyss and I can't seem to find even the most simple happiness. I'll move on with a scar but I'm gonna get through this. Thank you so much
Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
@YuukiKen I’m glad it helps you. Sometimes all that is needed is a fresh view on life. It’s not going to be easy, it wasn’t for me, but with time and effort, you’ll be stronger than ever!
I'm sorry you had to go through so much pain and heartbreak, friend! I was feeling very low today after my hubby verbally abused me.... And I read your post and felt v nice, like there was hope and things will get better again. Thanks for sharing your POV. Hugsssss!! 🤗 Ty!!!!
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Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
@TienZong: hope it helps people... I know how tough it was, and I never want to go back there
Mindful · 56-60, F
Thank you for sharing!
Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
@Mindful 🤗
Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
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Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
@Enchanted: I am sorry you are going through this... it isnt easy, and recovery is in your hands only. Someone will never be able to heal you. They can temporarily make you feel better, but we always revert back to the norm. Please do me a favor, and tomorrow do something nice for yourself. Go get a pedicure or nails and hair. Go buy that new gadget for the kitchen you wanted... start a new hobby... this is your first payment to yourself, and first step to clearing up those clouds.
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