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Near impossible to forget…. But…..

It will be one year this September since the fallout and devastation…..
The near 2 years we had together was beyond amazing. In some retrospect, I guess most was a lie on your part.
But seems the choice has been made that we will never be anything more than ‘strangers’. NOTHING beyond civil & professional.
That’s definitely your motus operandi, either by choice or by orders…
I’ll comply. I’ll respect the unsaid wishes. I’ll forever all but vanish.
My brain lists a plethora of reasons to hate you. But my heart refuses as I’ve never hated anyone….
Trying to accept and even grasp the reality of going from one extreme to another, has been excruciating. As my logical mind struggles to give it approval.
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BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
Understanding it may never come .. said by someone moving on from a 30+ year marriage.

So much of what happened over those years .. the choices made on so many fronts, including to cheat instead of work in good faith to resolve the issues .. are simply beyond reason or logic.

A counselor told me to accept the end as the closure I needed, as it was extremely unlikely to come otherwise. Its been the best advice I got from any source.

Hope you find your peace with this and let yourself move on as best you can.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
@BrandNewMan appreciate the words BNM…I have moved on, for the most part.
But here’s the continuous thorn in the side in this… She’s a work colleague. Both our job functions involve us having to correspond on a work level. The only upside to that is that we’re at different locations.
BrandNewMan · 61-69, M
@Kiesel Yeah, I can see how that complicates the sitiation. I hope you find ways to cope with it.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
I am so sorry for the hurt you’re going through. As BNM said, you may never understand. I don’t think I will, either. I hope we all find peace.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
@ChampagneOnIce thank you Champagne…..
I’m sorry for your hurt as well…🥺
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@Kiesel Thank you. I’ll be ok in time. You will be, too.

 
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